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Snake217
March 23rd, 2010, 09:36 PM
Heres the thing:
My laptop registers passwords of thos who use it, my best friend knew it and trusted me, so he used it no matter what, and I swore to him I would never look into his emails, but I failed doing that, I only opened it for like 2 mins, and searched for some homework info he once sent to me and i deleted by mistake, so I didnt really got into his privacy, but I kinda feel like a big idiot for failing what I swore to him, after he trusted me.

I know youll tell me that I should have asked, but he was unreachable and I really neede the info quickly.

Idk if I should tell him what I did or just let it pass, what do you advice?

Obscene Eyedeas
March 23rd, 2010, 09:40 PM
You should not have betrayed his trust. trust is a hard thing to come by easily lost and hard to gain. imo you should tell him but he may end up fighting with you so it's your choice . if you do tell him emphasize how you meant no harm that you just couldn't reach him and feel terrible and all you did was get the homework.

DrkZ90
March 23rd, 2010, 09:42 PM
I don't think you should tell him... you didn't' do anything wrong, since you weren't snooping around, just looking for something you needed, no harm was done...

emt.Cam
March 23rd, 2010, 11:19 PM
I agree with Archangel Liriel, good friends are hard to come by. Soon enough, you find out who your true friends are.

I'm going to tell you how I see this. Don't sweat something like this, if he get's mad at you for looking for homework on his e-mail and you didn't read anything or tamper with his e-mails in any way then don't bother. This REALLY isn't something to get all worked up about and freak over. If you have guilt gut -which I do too- then tell him the mitigating circumstances -finding homework- that you felt was okay to try to find. I'm gonna go back to Arcangel, true friends are truly hard to find and being honest with him is probably best. I don't see him getting completely upset. Best of luck to you.

MaliciousBunface
March 29th, 2010, 12:41 PM
Do what you feel is the best thing to do..I would try to explain the situation in a way that would not make him react..basically just explain that you were looking for the homework and that you weren't invading his privacy..hope it helps :)

Sith Lord 13
March 30th, 2010, 06:52 AM
I would tell him as soon as possible. If he is going to end your friendship over it, he wasn't a real friend in the first place. He might get upset, and maybe even not speak to you for a few days, but, if he's a real friend, he will come around. Or he could just not care at all and wonder why you're bothering to tell him. Honesty is usually the best answer, and with a friend doubly so. Using his e-mail may have violated his trust, lying definitely will.