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RJLOVER
March 23rd, 2010, 03:55 PM
okay so im gay or bi or curious i dont really know like it depends on the day. i fell in love with a boy over a year ago and i'd give up everything for him. the thing is im only 80% sure he likes guys in some way and we dont talk as much as we used to but i try all the time. so the beginning of school this year i met this other kid whos cute and cool and he wants to do stuff with me but like idk if i want to because of the other kid...also the new kid isnt circumsized and that kind of scares me.

PLEASE HELP NEED SOME SORT OF ADVICE

joshm
March 23rd, 2010, 04:07 PM
Wow, well I guess the major thing to think about is are you that sure you like this new boy? Don't just go out with him because he wants to do stuff. If you're positive the you like this kid then go for it. But if you really love this other boy then see what happens. If you have more of a bond with him then the other boy then go with the one you fell in love with over a year ago.

What I'm trying to say is that if you really love the boy you met a year ago, then go for it if he likes you back. But if you want to go out with the new boy then try it out and see where things go.

Being circumsized will have no effect on who he is. Good chance if he's not sexually active then he has no S.T.D.'s. I'm not too sure why you are scared of him though.

To wrap this all up, just go with what you think is best.

mathew911
March 23rd, 2010, 04:26 PM
As for the noncircumsized part, there is nothing to scare you. It is even easier to j/o when you are uncut, and I think that this is the least of your concern. As for doing stuff with other guys, you must figure that out yourself.

Hollywood
March 23rd, 2010, 04:28 PM
never give up a previous relationship for a new one unless you are absolutly sure you want to go out with the new one. Also, you should never let a guys circumsision judge who they are, their penis had nothing to do with their personality, so dont let that worry you. like josh said above, though, choose the one you know you love the most. good luck

SimplyTom
March 23rd, 2010, 04:32 PM
well its really up to u i would say keep to the guy u meet a year ago and there is nothing to be scared about being uncut. what are u scared is going to happen?

RJLOVER
March 23rd, 2010, 04:34 PM
thank you guys so much! and its not the uncut that like is hindering it, its just that personally it kinda weirds me out you know?
and the kid a year ago i love him but he barely talks to me but we do SOMETIMES and like we were really close at one point...but like like bipolar one day he loves talking to me the next he barely looks at me and everyone says hes gay...so like idkk

hollisterboi95
March 23rd, 2010, 04:38 PM
Like they always say in all those Disney movies!...FOLLOW YOUR HEART, WHAT IS IT TELLING YOU TO DO???

Kitty Purry
March 23rd, 2010, 10:51 PM
Well you are really just gonna have to think and see which guy you like more, because if you make the wrong decision your really gonna regreate it. And make sure your thinking with the right "head" because you could make te wrong decision just so you can do stuff with the new kid.

And him being uncircumcised shouldn't really matter if you love him. I really don't think there is that much of a difference when you do stuff with a uncircumcised penis rather than a circumsized penis. :P hope I helped