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BeTheBest
March 21st, 2010, 12:12 PM
I've got a girlfriend, but I love my ex more.
My ex lives 2 hours away on train, my current girlfriend lives 5 mins away when walking.
My ex don't talk to me, I text her, I try ringing, but not a answer.
I feel like just ending everything, including my life because my ex is probably moving on, and I'm just stuck hanging in the same spot. I've tried forgetting her, but it's never going to happen.
Honestly, I have no idea what to do. I will explain the whole story if you want.. Just reply asking for it.
Thanks.
Kaius
March 21st, 2010, 12:29 PM
To be honest, from reading the overview it seems very unfair on your current girlfriend, if your pining for your ex. But I know how you feel, I used to be in a similar situation. What I think you need to do is take a time out. Decide what's more important. The past with your ex girlfriend, or your future with your new girlfriend. Also take into consideration how convenient it, the distance and contact for example. No girl is worth taking your life over mate, honestly. I've made that mistake before and believe me, it was the worst possible one. Try keeping away from your ex for a while. Send her a text, telling her that you would be like to be friends, nothing more. This may convince her to begin talking to you slowly again. As the saying goes, when you find that one person, you'll know why it never worked out with the rest. If you need to talk to someone with a bit of experience of the situation, feel free to pm me, I hope this helps.
nick
March 21st, 2010, 12:40 PM
If your ex is refusing to return your contacts then really you need to forget her and try to move on. That might take you months, you cant expect to just switch of love, it doesnt work like that, but in the end sometimes you have to let it go.
MyNameIsJack
March 21st, 2010, 03:03 PM
You can't love to persons at the same time, that's just IMPOSSIBLE.
That's unfair, your current girlfriend thinks that you love her and that's not true. Maybe you feel more atracted to your ex, but it does not mean that you love her. Talk with your girlfriend about this, and you'll feel better with yourself.
Sunbunhun
March 22nd, 2010, 12:01 AM
Why did u and ur ex break up? Make a list of pros and cons about each girl
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