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cooldude123
March 21st, 2010, 04:08 AM
Hi all, and thanks for reading as i really need your help.

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about a week, and everything is going fine. I have been out with her any chance i get, and even cancled plans to be with her. Anyway, yesterday on the internet, i said something that backfired. It caused a huge arguement, and now we're not speaking. She even said shes breaking up with me, and i really need a miracle to fix this. I have said sorry i don't know how many times... I just don't know what to do.

It is all my fault for argueing with her, and i regret it like hell now. I'm so upset, but she is too. I really need something that can solve this, fast!

Thanks for the help.

Obscene Eyedeas
March 21st, 2010, 04:33 AM
Hun it really depends on what you said to her. if you could expand on that id be glad to help

cooldude123
March 21st, 2010, 05:16 AM
Well, she tells everything that happens between us to her best friend. Her best friend knows everything...

I said to her, why do you tell everything i said to <friend name here>.

I didn't mean it in a bad way, but that expanded and caused an arguement.

cooldude123
March 21st, 2010, 02:24 PM
Some of my friends say give her time, and see if the realises what she has done, and others say make a card or a letter saying sorry.

I just wish it all never happened.

MyNameIsJack
March 21st, 2010, 02:52 PM
Hi there, it's really inmature that she isn't facing the problem, but the only way you can change her mind, is trying to make her feel better. Tell her that you are sorry and you love her, and you won't say that kind of arguments anymore. Hug her, gifts, flowers, etc... :)

Kaius
March 21st, 2010, 03:05 PM
From what you've said I wouldn't say you're in the wrong at all to be honest. She should have expected you to be a bit put out if she's been telling her best friend literally every detail about your relationship. You asked a simple question and she took it the wrong way. My advice is to just leave her be. If she's worth the trouble she'll soon realise she's messed up.

Hatsune Miku
March 21st, 2010, 03:14 PM
To be honest. If a girl was going to break up with me over a little argument I wouldn't even bother with her. It's just immature.