how do i help her

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My gf and I decided to take our relationship to the next level and give each other orgasims. She has never had one. When I went to try and give her one she would complain of pain as soon as i went between the lips and under the clitoral hood. She told me the pain feels like an open cut (although I'm not sure that is acurate.) I have fingered girls before so I know what I'm doing but not sure why the slightest touch under the lips causes her pain. Any suggestions or ideas? We're both 17

[Omgthatsme]

Maybe go see a docter because man I don't know.

[venom832]

Maybe your doing it to rough or fast?

[laugh-to-live]

maybe have her finger herself. then she can find the EXACT point where it hurts so then she knows better where and what hurts.

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maybe have her finger herself. then she can find the EXACT point where it hurts so then she knows better where and what hurts.

I suggested that. shes thinking about it.

and no im not going rough at all, im barely petting the spots

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any other ideas out there?

[persiandude]

that portion of the body is extremely sensitive...a slight cut can cause discomfort.......i would go to the doctor........

[MELL-AHH-KNEE]

hmmm this is a tough situation, but maybe she wasn't ready and she just wanted to make you happy.. was this her first time in have this done? hmm, i'm really sorry i don't know if my advice has helped but i gave it my best shot.

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yeah it was her first time with someone else.... she has rubbed her clit before by herself but never for long... do any of you remember if ur first orgasim felt so good it hurt?

[cooldude123]

Personally, i would see a doctor. It may be embarrasing, but it's worth it in the end.