Nude photo...

[DayBreakArt]

My boyfriend is pressuring me to send him a nude photo. I sort of want to but sort of don't. He brings it up all the time. I get nervous. I get upset. But he continues to ask. I love him and other than the picture thing he's a great boyfriend. I told him how it makes me feel when he asks and he knows I've had a bad experience. What do I do? ):

Thank you everyone for your advice. I've solved it. He's taken me into consideration and I know he loves me very much. He's an amazing guy as much of an "asshole" he may seem like. We're in a long distance relationship so it's hard but he knows how I feel about it and he's alright with either decision I choose. I love you so much Gregory.

[Mr. Smithers]

VT General Hospital :arrow: Relationships and Dating.

[Omgthatsme]

I think you should not send it to him, but mabye show him in person when you think the time is right.

[laugh-to-live]

if you aren't completely comfortable then don't. nude pictures can get u in a lot of trouble so u need to be FULLY sure that you wish to send it.

[YesterdaysNews]

Only do what makes you feel comfortable, I've been in the same situation and I can relate to how you feel right now. PM me if you want to talk privately about this. But my advice, don't do it.

[Baudelaire]

if it makes you uncomfortable, dont, just tell him it puts you in an awkward position and its unfair.

[AllThatIsLeft]

Don't let him pressure you. If you don't want to do it, and he keeps bring it up. Be blunt, tell him you don't want to. and That you don't like to be pressured.
If he really cares about you, he shouldn't let that get in the way.

[jojo11282]

do not show him anything a sexting type realationship is not good at alll and if u do and if u guys ever have sex then after the third time that u do then stop for a week and see if he stops and dont let it get this far but if it does then take heed to what i say you have afull life doing what u want when u want and how u want it and u dont need him to tell u hwo to live and if u do use a a safe condom but remember if u give people what they want then they're gonna want it when and whenever and telll him to stop next time ok and how long does it take for him to ask u again after u do
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[BuryYourFlame]

It entirely comes down to what you are comfortable with, if you aren't comfortable with it, don't do it.

[JackOfClubs]

If you have any doubts at all don't do it; you could really regret it in the future.

[scuba steve]

if was a good boyfriend then he should not try and impose on your boundries even after you have repeatedly said you have had a bad experience with this type of thing, maybe you should remind him of that.

[Asylum]

if he truely cares about you, he won't pressure you to do things you don't want to do... dont do anythign you ever second guess. i wouldn't send a nude pic you could get into a lot of trouble and drama with that which isn't worth it.. .

[Iron Man]

Don`t send the photo. It is very dangerous and illegal. It could lead to problems later in your relationship.

[Ryhanna]

Don't do it. Don't let him be the boss in the relationship - Lay down the rules. "No, Im doing that, I don't want to and Im not going to let you pressure me into doing it." If he still bothers you about it then he's not worth you.

Also, your under 18. It's child pornography - you taking it would get you into trouble legally if anyone ever found out, and believe me, things like this spread quickly. You send it to him, his friends pressure him to send it to them, he does, they send it on, then soon enough it's on the internet and everyone knows about it. Not to mention that anyone that has it on their phone or anything could be charged with possession of child porn.

It's a no-brainer. Just don't do it.

[Antares]

Don't do it.
It's illegal and could cause issues down the road, also it could end up all over the school (happened here once)


EDIT:
In fact, I would recommend re-evaluating your relationship with him because after you say no the first time, he shouldn't be pressuring you any more and he may have the wrong reasons for being in this relationship.

[Carfreakjack]

It a feloney to do so. Child pornography. So I wouldn't recamend it. This is a very good cahnce u would get away with it but still

[andgrand]

take my advice... dont

[INFERNO]

There were two cases like this in the past, both of teenage girls and both were arrested (there are more though, these are just the more recent ones). One was more recent and was I believe on facebook or myspace, a girl posted nude pics of herself hoping her boyfriend would take a liking. The end result is after getting arrested and charged with child pornography, she also found her way onto the sexual offenders list despite the pictures being of herself. Another case was of sexting nude images and the girl sent pics of herself but unfortunately they got around as the receiver(s) were quite happy with what they got and soon the school saw her nude. In that case, there was a much larger mess and more arrests.

So, ignoring the relationship issues, be aware that there are legal issues and others have attempted it and it didn't go well.

For the relationship issues, I'd be weary as to why he would want a nude picture in the first place. If he really wants and if you're both willing, then have sex and he won't need a photo. There is a big concern though that if you comply and risk the legal issues, as faithful as he may be, guys can be guys and he may show your picture to other guys. If he does not do so, then I'd be weary as to whether or not him asking you so much is a way of him asking for sexual intercourse or for some other purpose.

I'd suggest to tell him not only the personal reasons you have but also the legal issues and that if you do so, if found out, you'll be up to your ears in legal issues, as will he for possession of child pornography (you'd get that along with distribution of child pornography). Depending on how it goes, you both may end up on a sexual offenders list. Tell him such a risk is not worth it and if he really wants to, then tell him his cheese has fell off his cracker, a brick short of a load, the elevator doesn't go to the top floors, whatever metaphor you want.

[Hatsune Miku]

Like everyone else said, if you're comfortable with it then go ahead. But I would suggest not sending it, but showing it to him in person. Sending it means he could keep it and possibly show other people, brag, ect.

Sending it also means one can get arrested for possession and distribution of child porn, which may put one on the sexual offenders list (both him and her actually). Even if you're comfortable sending the picture, are you comfortable if you get caught and face such legal and social consequences?

[MyNameIsJack]

DON'T DO IT! YOU WOULD REGRET IT SOOOOO MUCH!.

I'm a boy, and i know why he wants that photo, do not send the picture, he's an assold and im sorry, but BOYS including ME, just think about sex until WE really love a girl.
I fell in love 8 months ago, and I realized that girls body is something beatiful and innocent, untouchable!!! and if someone going to touch or even see your body, make sure that person loves you, and you'll feel secure and so happy with yourself.

[INFERNO]

Like everyone else said, if you're comfortable with it then go ahead. But I would suggest not sending it, but showing it to him in person. Sending it means he could keep it and possibly show other people, brag, ect.

Sending it also means one can get arrested for possession and distribution of child porn, which may put one on the sexual offenders list (both him and her actually). Even if you're comfortable sending the picture, are you comfortable if you get caught and face such legal and social consequences?

[SomeRandomDude]

Don't let him talk you into it. Do what you think is best for you. If you don't want to do it, then don't. If you want to, go ahead.

[Darkhorse]

I wouldn't just letting you know it's ILEGAL it's the distribution of child pornogaphy since youre under the age of 18 your bf will also get in s*** cuz he has it too

[kyle95]

DON'T DO IT!! DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT IT!!

You're too decent because you want to be selfless. That boy is selfish. He ought to be thinking of your welfare and not preying on you to get his jollies. As someone said above, a girl's body is very special and beautiful. It must not be violated by dishonourable intentions. If he truly loves you, then he should know better. You're hesitating because you know it's wrong.

[Kitty Purry]

If you feel that you dont wanna do it than DON'T, and if he keeps pressuring you to do it than you need to be straight up and say NO. I would really just go with my gut feeling, its usually the right way to go :P Hope i Helped :P

[taylortheinnocent]

i wouldnt.....this crap finds it s way online all the time, especially if you breakup or something like that......and then sudddenly your pic is everywhere...