Dnt know who to turn to

[Loveisrespect]

Hey all I need help. I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years and I love her so much I feel like I would do anything for her. But the past few months have been ruff. Emotionaly I have been a mess, I told her it's bc of all out fights and stuff. Now my girlfriend is calling me crazy bc I get upset all the time. I'm jus emotionaly stressed over all this and want help. We get into arguments and she and I have had physical volience come in to play. I know we both need to get help... I pushed her b4 but vowed I would never do it again. And I havnt I love this girl so much I cnt believe I ever did that to her. But she has told me the same.... But jus last week she pushed me against the front door. I called the cops on her to try and give her a wake up call... She told me she was very sry and I didn't press charges. I thought she would learn then but she hasn't bc jus a few days ago she and I were arguing and she grabed both my arms and pushed me against the colest door. I'm scared she won't stop.

I jus want things to be back to how they used to b I have even seemed counceling but I don't know if she will go with me. Is it too late for me to press charges on her? Bc now I feel like it is my only option left. She didn't come home last night bc she said she needed time away. But she won't answer any of my texts or calls. I told her we needed to see a councler but she told me she has givin up. She broke up with me threw text at 130am last night. I feel so alone she is the one continuing this violence and then she jus leaves. Should I contact her parents or mine? I'm scared and I jus want advice

[DaretoFallup]

First...how old are you? I'm trying to figure out where contacting parents comes into play.

Anyway, abusive relationships are never worth continuing. You shouldn't have let it go on for as long as it did.
I really need to know how old you are to better respond..

[Loveisrespect]

Hello thanks for responding it means a lot.

I would like to be able to go to my parents but the relationship jus isn't there with them... I feel like I should go to them for comfort but I cnt. By the way I'm 24 I wasn't seeking my parents aproval or anything. The relationship jus isn't there with them so I cnt talk to them.

[DaretoFallup]

I think you're overage for this site..

I'm confused by what you're asking for... it sounds like the situation is all settled and over with..

[Loveisrespect]

i thought this site was for teens and young adults. I didn't know someones age mattered when it came to help boards seriousily. I was jus reaching out for someone to talk to.

Please someone who understands respond. Thanks

[Tiberius]

OP banned :locked: