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Iamthe dark lord
March 19th, 2010, 10:16 PM
ive never had a gf or a date most girls have shund me and will onely talk to me if they whant something or to mock me and im not realy shour y i carnt get a date i mean all my female friends say im seet ,funny, smart and kind but ive been rejected by every girl ive asked out althrough on the other hand im nartasistic sarcastick and ive atepted to kill myslef i have savear dapreshen and low self astem im an absolute nerd and i hate humanetey
but ime onley like this coz im foreste to push people away coz i no ill get hert but on the inside i just dont whant to be alone its a rediculas stailmate thats tearing me apart
have u guys got eney advise to help me and some tips to help get me a date would be nice even through its unlikeley

Nicinoz
March 19th, 2010, 10:33 PM
Trust me when I say this, you will find someone one day. Plenty of people don't find someone until there adults. Just let it go for a bit, someday, someone will like you, you just have to be patient.

Hollywood
March 19th, 2010, 11:37 PM
it may just be your personality, but never change who you are for a girl. everyone has their perfect match, sometimes they dont find it until their 40 (i havent). just sit back and wait, shell come eventually

Iron Man
March 19th, 2010, 11:48 PM
It is ok. You will find a girlfriend someday. You shouldn`t even be worried about this in high school. It is just unnecessary practice for real life.

Jean Poutine
March 20th, 2010, 04:28 AM
suck it up, princess

with time you'll realise that's the best advice anyone could have given you, ever.

Jackel
March 23rd, 2010, 05:33 AM
Dude, I'm pretty much the same, (bar the 'we live to die, we die to be free' and the killing stickmen thingo), but yeah!

Sure, I'm a narcisus, (I am pretty good looking...I think).
Now, just reading your thing makes me wan't to cry, (and I onlky cry when something IS sad, cute, or I've jsut been kicked in the crouch), but still! I get rejected! All i want is my own perfect world...or at least a girlfriend. A kiss....that would make me bounce right out of MY depression, (yes...I have depression...dunno what level, but im sure of it.), but yeah, a kiss would be so...so..great! (damnit! I sound like humphrey bear on tv! >:(
Just keep hoping...or hopping...i dunno...it will happen....eventually.

Jack

Strength
March 23rd, 2010, 08:01 AM
you're 13, you have loads of time. i was 17 when i had my first gf.

Aspiringanonymous
March 23rd, 2010, 11:16 PM
I say this from experience - the best things come when they are least expected.

Don't try too hard, at some point it becomes too obvious and produces the opposite effect. Be yourself, lead a balanced life, and let the rest come naturally. Even if it doesn't, that's okay - there are other ways to cope with and reduce the effects of loneliness.

Alone does not need to mean lonely.

Love, because you genuinely feel and wish to express love, and not out of the need to fill an inner void - especially if you are not experienced in relationships, it can be a dangerous approach to take.

Hope everything works out for the best.