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Dannyavfc
March 19th, 2010, 06:32 PM
hey,

im 15 and i go to a boys school. i am starting to think that i am bi or certainly curious. do you guys have any advice ?

Pudd
March 19th, 2010, 06:40 PM
Id say your curious, just flow with it, if it turns out your Bi/Gay, no big deal.

Fusion
March 19th, 2010, 06:45 PM
It's a bit early to label yourself yet, with your hormone levels etc, there is no need to worry about your sexuality.

Ricardo
March 19th, 2010, 07:08 PM
I know how you feel,i think i am having the same feelings.

josh93
March 19th, 2010, 08:01 PM
well all boys are curious and it is fine to be curious.

Hollywood
March 19th, 2010, 08:03 PM
thats just cuz of puberty. only u know if ur bi or gay or straight

Jmann
March 19th, 2010, 08:14 PM
well dude i think im in the same situation u are in. im thinking i might be bi or im just really curious,idk yet

nick
March 20th, 2010, 08:07 AM
Many guys are at least a bit curious, but that can mean many things. At one level wanting to take a peak at other guys to compare sizes is normal to just about everyone, whereas thinking about sexual activity with them would be taking things a bit further.

Give yourself more time for your hormones to calm down a bit and dont be in any hurry to attach a meaningless label to yourself. Ask yourself the question, in a world where there was no stigma or prejudice, would you date another guy?

SimplyTom
March 22nd, 2010, 06:11 AM
its normal with all the hormones going around

taylortheinnocent
March 22nd, 2010, 07:41 AM
yeah i agree that the hiormones have alot to do with it, they sorta take over.....plus, being at a boys school theres a flood of them there now!

DeadBard
March 23rd, 2010, 02:03 AM
hey,

im 15 and i go to a boys school. i am starting to think that i am bi or certainly curious. do you guys have any advice ?

Dont be afraid, dont doubt.

samsamsam
March 28th, 2010, 12:48 PM
exactly the same as mee

itsbhuddatime07
March 30th, 2010, 08:08 PM
You're probably just curious. Although only time and you will be able to tell.

CuriousDestruction
April 1st, 2010, 01:15 AM
might be curious, maybe gay, maybe bi. no way to tell without more info dude.

Cazzman
April 1st, 2010, 07:32 AM
might be your hormones, im in a similar situation to you. If you're worried out it down to your hormones, if ur enjoying it let the hormones flow an take advantage!

that kid
April 1st, 2010, 02:14 PM
Same thing here. Your just a little curious. Plus it's not like we have any girls to look at at an all guys school.

YourFriend
April 4th, 2010, 06:17 PM
Many guys are at least a bit curious, but that can mean many things. At one level wanting to take a peak at other guys to compare sizes is normal to just about everyone, whereas thinking about sexual activity with them would be taking things a bit further.

Give yourself more time for your hormones to calm down a bit and dont be in any hurry to attach a meaningless label to yourself. Ask yourself the question, in a world where there was no stigma or prejudice, would you date another guy?

Nick said it.

josh93
April 4th, 2010, 06:21 PM
Well your hormons are starting to go crazy and it aint going to get better till you get arond like your earlie 20s to late 20s mabey but it is fine if you are very curiuos or even bi or gay it is fine being any iam bi i dont mind.

happyascanbe
April 9th, 2010, 07:41 PM
find someone like yourself im sure there are and release yourself! just be careful..

staying_alive
April 10th, 2010, 11:23 PM
I hope i'm not too late to the party. As many have said, you're curious.

Dude, let me just say that being curious can absolutely SUCK. It can bother the shit out of you, especially around other guys. Being at an all guys school, your situation kind of blows if you let your sexuality get to you.

HOWEVER, please continue for optimism below.

You HAVE to accept that you're curious. Just enjoy it. Catch some glimpses, have some fantasies. The more you accept it, the better off you are. You can enjoy yourself that way. Otherwise, you'll end up acting weird around guys, and there aren't exactly tons of girls to hang around with at your school.

obknobe
April 10th, 2010, 11:38 PM
I agree. Kinda look around and be seen looking and talk to other guy or guys that seem interested in you, then explore. If you are both into it, no harm can come of it if you are discrete.

KillerKing
April 11th, 2010, 08:42 AM
In that envrionment im pretty sure every other one of em is curious too, Advice: just go wth it