need advice

[autumncook]

ok so i am a 15 year old girl and my best friend of 11 years that is also a girl was at my house when she just kissed me on the lips and i got mad and pushed her away she told me she is bi now that was a few weeks ago and we havent talked since i love my friend but like a sister and dont want to lose her but she wont talk to me anymore i dont care if she is bi or not i just dont like her that way what should i do to get my friend back

[Scarface]

I think in no offense to you, you may have went about it in the wrong way. It took a lot for her to do that and you kinda rejected. At the same time though she is young and i completely understand where your coming from. I would start by approaching her and apologizing and telling her why you did what you did and explain to her that if she is bi that you accept her, but you would like to keep it just friends. I hope this helps

[LNM1335]

Autumn? I could try to help you, but one question first: What is your orientation? Are you straight, Bisexual, Bi-curious or lesbian? Did your friend ever ask you that before she kissed you? Sorry for not knowing your entire situation. :(

[Inconvenience]

talk to her and tell her u accept her only as a friend, no intimate relations, just a pure friendship. she's gotta get it, and if she cant, then there's nothin u can do

[autumncook]

LNM1335 i am straight and no she didnt ask me

[LNM1335]

OK. Thank you for clearing that one up. I would be in shock, too, if that were to happen to me! :O

[SEASHELL]

Go up to her ... say " I know you really like me and I like you too, but I'm not into Girls like Bi stuff and things like that. But I really Love you as a Friend and like a Sister " ..... Then give her a BIG HUG and Kiss her on the Cheek and then say "Okay " and smile at her while you hold her on the shoulders. Then give her a Really Gentle kiss on the lips, and say " just friends, okay ".

[Harley Quinn]

ok so i am a 15 year old girl and my best friend of 11 years that is also a girl was at my house when she just kissed me on the lips and i got mad and pushed her away she told me she is bi now that was a few weeks ago and we havent talked since i love my friend but like a sister and dont want to lose her but she wont talk to me anymore i dont care if she is bi or not i just dont like her that way what should i do to get my friend back

Send her a little note, explaining why you don't want to lose her and how you don't mind that's she's bi but you'd rather if she didn't hit you so much. Leave it her locker, on her desk, her pocket, anywhere you know she'll look. Tell her your sorry you were just a little shocked that's all.

[txrose]

Tell her that even though you are not bi-sexual that you still want her friendship. Tell her that maybe you did not react the right way and you are sorry about that. Say to her that the way she is has in no way changed the way you feel about her and you want to get back to being the friends that you were before this happened. If she cannot live with that then you need to find a new friend. But I have a feeling she will be ok with it if she really did like you as a friend and not a lover.

[CuriousDestruction]

tell her you want to be her friends, but you don't like her like that. she should respect your feelings. if she doesn't, you need to seriously talk to her about your feelings.