My supposed best friend is confusing me

[laugh-to-live]

My bff (i'm not sre that is what she is anymore) is being soo mean to me. like i am only her friend when she has no one better or cooler to hang out with and im tired of it. it has been happening this whole school year! what should i do? end our friendship? or put up with this crap for a little longer till the end of the school year? :confused:

[Nicinoz]

Whatever you do, don't end your friendship. I know how you feel, but all you have to do is try to hang out with them more. If that doesn't work and you get really tired of it, just tell them and ask them to hang out with you more often.

Hope I was helpful.

[Kaius]

Well, don't end your friendship because of it. There could be a reason behind why she's acting like that. Try talking to her about it, find out if there is a reason. Maybe somethings going on at home. Voice your feelings to your friend, it might just make her think a bit more about what shes doing.

[cherry_boi]

you have to realize that that is an unhealthy friendship and have to not allowed yourself to be treated with such disrespect, because you are a wonderful person with so much potential and lots to offer.

but she meant something to you once, and maybe still does so don't abandon her

i bet there is something deeper going on with her that makes her act the way she does, she's probly feeling very unhappy about something, could be anything from the stress of being a teenager and trying to figure out who you are to family issues or something else.... and as a friend you should offer your support

but not allow yourself to be used or mistreated by her in the process, if she's unwilling to accept your support then you should distance yourself from her, but not in a mean way, just tell her that your not ok with how your being treated and you still like her a a person but are not ok with the choices she's made and that you don't want to be near someone who doesn't make you feel good about yourself, but would love to be friends if she's willing to change her attitude

hopefully u guys can salvage your relationship and learn to embrace each others differences and be caring and respectful :)

best of luck

[laugh-to-live]

ok. i think your right. i'm going to ask her if everything is okay. hopefully she answers me........thanks all.

[JOSEE]

you have to realize that that is an unhealthy friendship and have to not allowed yourself to be treated with such disrespect, because you are a wonderful person with so much potential and lots to offer.

but she meant something to you once, and maybe still does so don't abandon her

i bet there is something deeper going on with her that makes her act the way she does, she's probly feeling very unhappy about something, could be anything from the stress of being a teenager and trying to figure out who you are to family issues or something else.... and as a friend you should offer your support

but not allow yourself to be used or mistreated by her in the process, if she's unwilling to accept your support then you should distance yourself from her, but not in a mean way, just tell her that your not ok with how your being treated and you still like her a a person but are not ok with the choices she's made and that you don't want to be near someone who doesn't make you feel good about yourself, but would love to be friends if she's willing to change her attitude

hopefully u guys can salvage your relationship and learn to embrace each others differences and be caring and respectful :)

best of luck


Treat her with love and witness about God to her, but dont let her mush u around. :wub:

[MaliciousBunface]

I personally dislike people like that, as I know people who are like that to me...try and make the friendship work :)..and maybe she will stop bein like that

[MELL-AHH-KNEE]

well, i am going through pretty much the samething, just find another group of ppl who are in your age range and get to know them, or add more people on this and get to know them, i mean i don't expect you to listen to what i have to say, i'm only new, but i have had my fair share of experience at this sort of situation.

[Hollywood]

to be honsest, if she is only being nice to you because theres no one better around, she isn't your friend. do you know this for sure?

thats defiantly not someone you can call a friend, just talk to her and ask her why she treats you that way, and if she talks crap to you, than just walk away. good luck