Describe the worst relationship or date that you had!!!!!

[Vacuola]

In the relationships world there are always bad dates!!!! So tell some of your experiences!!!!!:P

[TakeMyHand]

The only girlfriend (if you could call her that) I ever had was in 7th grade (I'm in 12th now) and we only went out because she asked me out before I even knew who she was (she had a friend ask me one day "Hey, that girl over there wants to know if you'd take her to the dance."), and at first I thought she was joking because I'd always been a bit of a loner with low self-esteem (getting a little better now, working really hard to change that), so I said no. But she kept asking so eventually after a few weeks I said yes thinking "What could it hurt?"

We never even talked to each other even though we were officially dating for 2 months. I knew practically nothing about her except her first name. It was the most awkward unpleasant experience going to a school dance for the first time and dancing (never danced before or since) with someone you don't even know. Ugh, just thinking about it makes me nausious, it was so embarassingly uncomfortable. Anyway, she eventually dumped me though it didn't really feel like we were even going out. She turned out to be the preppy slutty stuck-up popular-girl type, totally and completely not my type. It was just weird and rather out-of-nowhere and random.

[Scarface]

Wow where do i start.... Well i had a boyfriend who had really bad mood swings i thought he was bi-polar. Anyhow in the morning before school he would be in a terrific mood everything would be fine and dandy we would be hanging out and chillin at school. It was great When we would get out of school he was still in a pretty good mood, but when we would get back to my house or go out some where he would be all defensive over me especially if i was talking to another guy or my other friends. We never had problems with our relationship like cheating or anything, but he was always real weird about it. Then if i told him i was having a bad day and didn't want to talk to him he would explode and be like "why"? where are you whats going on are you mad at me??/ what is it? it was really creepy. so when i ended it zomg what a relief

[Vacuola]

LOL, funny stories!!!!!!!

So know that you had experienced this, do you learned something about this awkward moment in your life??????

[Sapphire]

Erm, not going to give detailed stories as there are too many lol.

I've had a sexually abusive boyfriend; a boyfriend who took advantage of me when I was just getting over a suicide attempt just so he could get some; a girlfriend who was a very messed up, angry, man hating lesbian; and a girlfriend who appears to be a compulsive lying slut who disappeared for a week with 6 Spanish guys who didn't speak English.

[cherry_boi]

worst date i ever had.....drove to girls house to pick her up, she answered the door looking like she had just woken up, i was like "sorry am i early?" she was like "no ur right on time".....

then she made me is in her room while she went on facebook and i was tried to have a conversation with her that she had no interest in having.....

so i was like "lets go out to eat, then we can go for a walk in the park or something.."

she said she didn't feel like going out and continued with whatever she was doing on her computer, while i sat awkwardly on her bed wondering wft was going on

i waited for like 15 min then finally said, well if ur not guna talk to me and don't wanna go do something i'm guna go, then she was like "i'm sorry, we can go out-- just gimme a sec"....<goes back on her computer>

lol so being the dick that i am..... i stood up, took out my cell, and called up one of my female friends and was like "hey steph my date just bailed on me, wanna hang out?"

smiled at her and left

lol now she avoids me at school......it's fun -.-

[Art_dude]

worst date i ever had.....drove to girls house to pick her up, she answered the door looking like she had just woken up, i was like "sorry am i early?" she was like "no ur right on time".....

then she made me is in her room while she went on facebook and i was tried to have a conversation with her that she had no interest in having.....

so i was like "lets go out to eat, then we can go for a walk in the park or something.."

she said she didn't feel like going out and continued with whatever she was doing on her computer, while i sat awkwardly on her bed wondering wft was going on

i waited for like 15 min then finally said, well if ur not guna talk to me and don't wanna go do something i'm guna go, then she was like "i'm sorry, we can go out-- just gimme a sec"....<goes back on her computer>

lol so being the dick that i am..... i stood up, took out my cell, and called up one of my female friends and was like "hey steph my date just bailed on me, wanna hang out?"

smiled at her and left

lol now she avoids me at school......it's fun -.-

HAHAHAH XD What an awesome response. I would not know what to do in that kind of situation... You handled it really well! lol

The most fucked up date thing I've ever had was with this one girl Jacey... She was a mutual friend of my best friend, and she introduced us when I stopped by her place. She was realllly flirty with me. Very affectionate, tried to touch me etc, etc. I was really flattered and thought, "wow, she really seems to like me. She seems nice, I should ask her out" so after IMing with her over the next few days and getting to know her more (and her reallly increasing the heat) I decided to ask her out. She said yes, and I said I'd call her back with details. Everything seemed to be going great until one night when we were talking (via chatting on Facebook) I brought up our Friday night plans or whatever, and she asked,

"Can I bring a friend?"

........wait.....what the fuck? lol So I basically I responded just like that. I was like, "ummmm. wait what?" And she told me, "yea it's this girl I know who I think you'll realllly like. She's cute and I think you two would hit it off.." So basically I was completely dumbfounded. I asked her, "you realize I was asking YOU out right? I was about as blunt and obvious as a gun..." And she just feigned innocence like, "Oh I thought you just wanted to hang out..."
This is coming from the girl who came on to ME and said some pretty explicit things... Not to mention I TOLD her my interest in her. It was like she completely pretended nothing happened... it was so messed up. Later my friend (who introduced us) told me that's just 'how she is.' I told her how she came on to me and she responded, "oh... she's like that around every guy. She's basically a slut." ..... well that was messed up lol

[Vacuola]

Hey guys!!!! All of your stories are really great bad experiences, some of them are very funny XD. But they are valuable experiences. Thanks for your feedback.

[XxHaViiK]

One where you're so in love, and then someone rips you two far apart...

[Katrina]

My relationship with my ex was the worst ever and I don't think anybody will have more worse relationship than it.
For more info - http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=65784&highlight=Blackmailed

[Sapphire]

I don't think anybody will have more worse relationship than it.
Wow...way to go with the self important and dismissive attitude...

[Vacuola]

Katrina, you really had a bad experience!!!!!!! But there will be always stories that are worst than ours..... :)

[Katrina]

Wow...way to go with the self important and dismissive attitude...

Katrina, you really had a bad experience!!!!!!! But there will be always stories that are worst than ours..... :)
Sorry, for being so self-important.:( I hope I don't commit this mistake again.
And I understand that there have been relationships for other people which have been worse than mine. In fact I said it in the context as an Indian, as India physical relationships are still considered taboo.

[Sapphire]

Sorry, for being so self-important.:( I hope I don't commit this mistake again.
And I understand that there have been relationships for other people which have been worse than mine. In fact I said it in the context as an Indian, as India physical relationships are still considered taboo.
Even in that context, rape would be worse.

[autumncook]

i went on a roller coaster with this guy i really liked and it had a lot of drops and loops and when we got off of it we wear standing and talking and he said he didnt feel good and he threw up on my feet it was so gross he said he was really sorry and i forgave him but it was the worst date i have ever had

[lipstick_kisses23]

I went to the movies with one of my best gal pals and we were cruising around waiting for our movie to show the little preveiws. Well, some guy that worked there gave me his number and i texted him later on that night. We got to talking and a little while later we were a couple (he asked me out the night of my confirmation). He was perfect at first but then I started noticing how jealous and clingy he was. I kept sweeping it under the carpet until i had a youth group function with my church (teen week). Everyone was having fun taking pics and just being APPROPRIATE teens at a church event. I showed him the pictures when we got back and he FLIPPED because they were taking pictures of me when i was sleeping. He started threatening me and some of the people from my youth group and was just being a total douche. I broke it off that same day.

[Skeletal-Chic]

Well, I've never really had a real one on one date with someone or anything like that. I'm not really a well liked or boy-friend material (apparently)

Buutt, with the one girl-friend I have had when I was like... 13/14 (I can't remember) I had a rather complicated break-up.

Well, before I had been going out with this one girl, who we shall call M, I had been "dating" a girl called A. The "relationship" I had with A was weird and she was basically "going out" with me to take the piss out of me. But, like a fool, I believed it was a sincere liking. Anyway, A broke up with me and a month later I was dating M. It was great and I really liked her, despite making some faux-pas' (like texting her during a date to ask if I could hold her hand lol).

Anyway, we had been dating for about 2 months when I started getting eMails from A. She was saying stuff like she felt bad for what she had done and wanted to go out with me for real. I said no, that I wasn't single and wasn't going to cheat or dump M. (plus I didn't believe her). So, i thought that that was the end of that. But then, M. started to act weird and I asked her what was wrong and she told me she new about A. I was furious that A. had eMailed M. telling her that I was going to dump her and stuff. I told M. that it wasn't true, but apparently A. had been very persuasive for longer than I realised.

I've never had another girl-friend since xD

[Smiler]

^^Wow, what a bitch A was...

[Skeletal-Chic]

lol, reading that, it sounded so covert and 50's spy xD

[HillBillyWilly]

Well:

I asked a girl out at the end-of-the year dance at my school and she said yes, i saw her a couple of times at the pool but we never really talked or did anything involving one of us getting closer than 10 feet to the other. It was almost as if she didn't want people to think we were dating. Then my family went on vacation and when we came back i almost never saw her at all. her phone didn't have a texting plan, so i always felt weird when i wanted to call her because i never knew what to talk about.

It lasted almost the entire summer break and carried into the next school year. Since i wasnt in any of her classes, i couldnt break up with her, and i had to get one of my friends to do it for me, which i am not proud of.

It was weird because if you saw the two of us, you probably wouldnt think we even knew each other.

[Art_dude]

Well:

I asked a girl out at the end-of-the year dance at my school and she said yes, i saw her a couple of times at the pool but we never really talked or did anything involving one of us getting closer than 10 feet to the other. It was almost as if she didn't want people to think we were dating. Then my family went on vacation and when we came back i almost never saw her at all. her phone didn't have a texting plan, so i always felt weird when i wanted to call her because i never knew what to talk about.

It lasted almost the entire summer break and carried into the next school year. Since i wasnt in any of her classes, i couldnt break up with her, and i had to get one of my friends to do it for me, which i am not proud of.

It was weird because if you saw the two of us, you probably wouldnt think we even knew each other.

Wow, I think we have a winner lol XD That's so bizarre... you didn't go on like any dates or anything whatsoever?

[HillBillyWilly]

no. it was like a stale relationship

[trina]

Somebody asked me out to go dating somewhere far and a bit pricey... he made me pay for every single thing we ordered.