You really know how to hurt me.

[Fiending_the_freedom]

so my dad calls me this morning and tells me to go to my school and get my options for the classes i failed.
i told him i dont want to go beucase i already no my options, i can go to summer school for only science and english becuase the rest of my marks are too low.
then i otld him i'm not going to summer school i'd rather take it over again.
he says i dont care your going.
i told him i'm not.
"fine if you dont go then pack up your stuff and move back to your moms"

then he hung up.

ok yes i'm really angry right now so i might be a little harsh on him but,

I FUCKING HATE HIM.

god. he knows exactly how to hurt me but he doesn't think it hurts my feelings.
living at my moms was one of the most destroctive areas of my life.
and the deal was that if i move to my dads i'd get good marks.

i failed everything but one course.
fuck.
i told him i'd get good markks if i was happy, and i told him he needs to get me therapy but of course he doesn't so nothing happeens i just sleep all day, nothing changes.
and if i tell him that i asked for therapy becuase i wasn't happy and it would help me he'll just say the same thing he always says "stop using that as an excuse".

FUCK.

i hate him so much right now.
i know its childish but i dont give a fuck about him right now i'm staying out all night tonite just to fucking piss him off. i hope hes fucking happy.
this really isn't about summer school. its about him being a fucking idiot and threating to put me back in my moms, and that fucking hurts, he either wants me there or he doesn't.

[mRojas2000]

just try talking to him about how you feel, and try kinda putting some "rules" or something so you can both be fine... in worst of cases, move to your moms, and sure she will treat you different because you werent with her for a while (im just guessing this one)
dont know if it should be appropiate to say, but in the WORST of the cases... just... its just hard to say... you might understand, if not PM me...

hope it helped you... im sorry...
Miguel

[Rooster]

This doesn't sound like an easy "this or that" decision. Though you know, staying out all night won't teach him nothing. My family's like that too, it's only their way, and nothing else is "right". I have a feeling what you need is some mid-ground intervention, and I foresee you coming across someone who will turn things around. Good luck...

[Physicist]

He's doing what's best for you. Don't try to fight him.

[Fiending_the_freedom]

i know hes trying to do good withthe whole summer school things, this really wasn't what i was upset at, it jsut brought out other feelings of ignorance becuase he ignors my problems and ignores that i need therapy and it jsut hurt he would use my mom as a threat.
thanks for the advice guys^^
i sat down and told him he needs to step up and help me like i've asked so were going to go to teh doctors and try and get reccomended to a therapy place

[Bobby]

Tegan.... I'm sorry. You have to hold up strong and not let him put you down. I'd go to summer school and just work really hard. And the therapy thing, I'm glad he's finaly supporting you to some point.