shyness with girls

[steezypeezy]

I was just wonderin if anyone else is really shy when it comes to talking to girls and what I can do to be more confident?

[Hollywood]

yeah im pretty shy with girls too. i think its best to make friends with the girl u like first and then it should be easier to ask her out, if thats what you want to do. getting their email address and IMing them is also a good way to break the ice

[clovermcm]

Hey, I'm a girl, but here's some reassurance:

A lot of girls are happy to be noticed/addressed, even by someone they hardly know! If a guy comes up to talk/ flirt with a girl, girls are totally flattered and get confidence knowing a boy likes her. So go for it and keep strong!

[kyle95]

I used to be that way until I cleared my head from all the thoughts that messed me up. Then it became easy to accept her friendship by being myself without any expectations. Remember, if a girl likes you, it's because of what she sees and notices about you, not what's in your head :)

[Joshrofl]

I'm not nervous when talking to girls, but maybe talking to girls i like about Dating or something like that.

[staying_alive]

Get to be friends with them. Don't try and jump in head first with the flirting etc. Just talk to them, smile, make them laugh. Sometimes it'll take a REALLY long time (aka my current situation) but they'll eventually take a liking to you.

[pageplant77]

Just try to relate with them, crack a few jokes with them, just start some small talk with them.

[CoolDude8]

I'm shy with girls too. You just have to psyche yourself up if you're gonna ask one out.

[josh93]

I do get shy when talking to girls but i would just take my chances and talk to them.

[Scarface]

Just make a casual conversation with them. Make a good first impression. Just remain calm with them and talk smooth i think you will be ok. Don't worry about ehat they think of you just be yourself

[turtle7]

dont worry i was allways scared to talk to girls but here are some ways u can:

U could have ur freinds come with u when u talk to them and ask them to start a conversation

U could use facebook myspace w/e to u know find out about them so u have something to talk about when u see them and u can find stuff u have in common

u could ask them to be ur partner for a project then u always have a topic to talk about

[MyNameIsJack]

I was shy too, the problem is in your personality, think on what you like and think on what you dont like, and all that things are topics to hold a conversation, for example:

I hate rap, I like skateboarding, I thing the world will be fucked on 2030, I think girls are the boys perfection..

You can talk with a girl about that and maybe she will not agree with you maybe she will, you'd never know until you try, but never lie, never lie, because one day you'll end in a relationship with that girl.

[Jackel]

Well, I'm kinda shy; but sometimes the shyness leads to an uncomfortable and even super awkward things. Like, one of my shy talks ended up with her trying to get me to perv! (I know, sounds great, huh? Didn't end to well with year sevens all around :(

Just try to be confidents, that's what I heard, but still: it should help. But don't exactly expect and great big kiss and confetti going around everywhere: you will get rejected sometimes.

And when you're just talking: remember girls sometimes find it awkward talking to boys: i found that out only last month! I'm still learning.

All I can truly say to help is good luck with the talking thingo.

Jack