How To End A Relationship Wisely?

[sweetso]

Hi, Have you ever think how to end a relationship because of some troubles?

Most of people want to end their relationship because of high pressure and emotion, and then they will realize and feel sorry for that.

Any suggestions or experiences How To End A Relationship Wisely? Let us share here

[Kaius]

I've had to make that choice, a few months ago actually. It was hard to do because I didn't want to hurt the person, but I realised I would be hurting her and myself more If I stayed in that relationship knowing i had feelings for somebody else, and the said person never really had time for me or the relationship. There are many ways to end a relationship, i find the easiest way is just to be as truthful as possible. yes, it may hurt, but lies would hurt more. Or i find "Taking a break" would get your point across a bit more easy. Im not sure if i've answered your question, but i hope this helps

[Aspiringanonymous]

I think the wisest way to end a relationship would be with honesty and clarity. Be clear and consistent with your own decision, and the reasons behind it. The breakup should be conducted calmly and with mutual respect. Honesty really is the best policy - you want to make sure that the other person is given the opportunity to understand and respect your feelings. Yes, the truth hurts, but it's much better to tell the truth and have it hurt now, than risk letting a partial truth misguide them into thinking that there is still a way to save the relationship.

Oftentimes, people will break up rashly after one disagreement or conflict, leaving only a greater emotional chaos and numerous unresolved issues that will inevitably pull the individuals back together again, for better or for worse. Be sure to think through the decision carefully before breaking up - and once it has been done, be prepared to stick with it.

[staying_alive]

+1 for honesty and clarity. That's the only way. If you have feelings for someone else, tell your significant other. They'll hate you in the short term, but appreciate it in the long term. Plus, they'll always find out if you don't tell them.

DONT break up after a conflict or a fight. Fights HELP a relationship. They let you learn more about the other person.

DONT get back together with them! Goddammit this pisses me off. When people dump eachother to "take a break" and then they get buyers remorse and run right back. (for those of you who don't know, buyers remorse is that feeling you get when you act on a big decision and then regret it afterwards).

That's all i can think of at the moment. It's more important not to hurt the person in the long run, since they'll obviously be hurt right after the deed is done.

[Scarface]

Bumped old thread