erm...does he like me?

[lilthinker]

my friend(boy) hugged me from behind when i was hugging my other friend (girl) and i think he got a boner...does he like me?

other things like this have happened like

we were play fighting and he grabbed me round my waist and held me so i wasn't exactly standing but i was on the floor and my jumper and t-shirt went up and he had his face burried in my shoulder
he did that like twice both times for like 5minutes

and if im sitting on a chair he will like jump over the back of my chair so hes sitting on my chair and im sitting inbetween his legs hes done that alot

and he touches my hair quite a bit

and he sometimes rests his head on my shoulder

and he always turns around in classes and stares at me

he always asks my option on his music

he says he likes my music and says i'm better than him

my friend (girl) had her legs cross mine and we were messing around and then he sat next to me and put his legs under mine and kept lifting my legs up

and he gets upset if he cant sit next to me

a few of my friends some who aren't even friends with him say me and him should go out

and i was sitting inbetween him and my friends boyfriend and he said kept saying when i wasn't looking to my friends boyfriend then he wanted to fuck me and put me into a wheel chair

and some other stuff

[staying_alive]

Ya know, it's quite impossible for anyone but him to say. Maybe even he doesn't know. From personal experience, I know that some of us get really confused, and do stuff like that just to flirt with girls.

In my opinion, him wanting to sit next to you says a lot. It sounds like he's into you, but I can't be sure. I'd say just talk to him about it...see what he says (or his friends for that matter).

P.S. the "wanted to fuck" you thing is weird. Too far for him to go.

[kyle95]

There's a whole range of issues here, from wanting attention, to unsolicited touching to vile and violent verbal suggestions. Know where to draw the line with that bloke. He must respect you and your space. He seems out of control and essentially marking his territory. You've got to be less passive. He can't get away with this sort of thing with most girls, so why let him do it to you. The 'boner' issue is quite troubling: every boy my age would just love to hug a girl and get a physical reaction, but that's not acceptable behaviour in any society. What next, drop his boxers and wank in front of you? So, in answer to your question whether likes you or not, he has his sites on you as someone who lets him get away with questionable behaviour. Remember, not all attention is good attention

[Shipley]

I do alot of the things he does to you to my friends(girls) but I don't go as far as wanting to fuck and stuff like that but it depends on how close you are to him me and my friends are close and do it as like fun and all but he is very flirty with you he most likely likes you

[Paladino]

I think he does like you.

[MyNameIsJack]

Yup, he feels atracted, but be carefull..atraction means he wants to kiss you and etc.. btw, doesn't means that he wants a relationship or something