I haven't the faintest idea.

[Bleh]

I have no idea what my sexual orientation is ( which is obviously a common problem). I thought I had finally settled on Bi about a year ago, but that just doesn't fit. I like girls, but I am not sexually attracted to them. Conversely, I am sexually attracted to guys, but I find them quite "un-lovable". As you can see, I have a dilema. My two best friends are girls and if either of them decided that they liked me, I would be all for it; however, (though I believe in waiting to have sex) it would quickly become apparent that the relationship would never go anywhere physically. On the opposite side, if there were any attractive gay guys in my area (which there aren't as far as I know) the relationship would be very bland until it just kind of fell appart. Barring any other factors and without having to "experiment", I just want to figure which sex I should be with so I can get on with my life because I want a family wt
with three kids and several dogs. I refuse to end up alone. So, am I supposed to "adapt" somehow and become attracted to women or am I supposed to wait for the one guy that I could actually like and eventually love?

[staying_alive]

Alright well you're situation is VERY similar to mine at the moment. Strange. Have you done anything physical with a woman? You'd be surprised how much you can "not be sexually attracted to them" and yet everything gets all hot when you get to that moment. I recommend getting a little more physical before judging yourself. Who knows, you could really like it.

However, assuming you have gone far enough to know for sure that you're not attracted to women, I say wait for the right person. It could be a man or woman, but you won't know til you find them. In the meantime, have fun at parties and flirt with the ladies and the guys. You're a free man, enjoy not being tied down to anything.