View Full Version : What do you think is the most cause of mental crisis in teenage????
Vacuola
March 17th, 2010, 08:24 PM
Hi!! i don't know if this is the right place for this but, I'm just wondering what things do you really think that makes you pass through a mental crisis. I know that there are million of causes but I will like you to tell me what happened to you. And what kind of stuff do you make to pass that difficult moment.
In my case, sometimes I really feel like I have to dissapear from the world. Just dissapear and stay in another place were time doesn't exist. Where all the problems and stress have stop. When I'm in that moment I just start to think, try to analyse the situation by different points of views, talk to others about what they think. Is in that time where I realize that my problems are smaller that I think. That I have hope and that I have the power to confront those problems.
CuriousDestruction
March 17th, 2010, 09:43 PM
meh, things just get bad. that's all i can think of right now. things go badly. my family or friends get depressed. it passes to me.
Aspiringanonymous
March 18th, 2010, 12:01 AM
You're right, a million different things could happen to trigger a mental crisis. The one thing they all have in common, though, is an upset of inner balance somehow. Generally, when something unexpected happens that either unearths past hurts or puts elements of the expected future at risk. Forces which arise from the external environment are much more difficult to master, as opposed to that which originates internally.
When it happens - I just deal with it. There really isn't any other choice but to walk through the storm, and keep walking until one reaches the end and meets calm once more. Taking on a third-person perspective of the situation does certainly help - but often it is a huge struggle to reach that position in the first place.
Scarface
March 18th, 2010, 07:22 AM
You're right, a million different things could happen to trigger a mental crisis. The one thing they all have in common, though, is an upset of inner balance somehow. Generally, when something unexpected happens that either unearths past hurts or puts elements of the expected future at risk. Forces which arise from the external environment are much more difficult to master, as opposed to that which originates internally.
When it happens - I just deal with it. There really isn't any other choice but to walk through the storm, and keep walking until one reaches the end and meets calm once more. Taking on a third-person perspective of the situation does certainly help - but often it is a huge struggle to reach that position in the first place.
She's right, but what usually triggers my crisis is usually depression or anxiety. sometimes they can be brought on my nothing at all. That happens sometimes, but talking with someone for me is usually my cure. Depression is a chain reaction to so many problems it's sometimes hard to decipher what the cause could be exactly, but as i said talking to friends family or a counselor are the cure because keeping it onside or bottling up your feelings only makes it worse.
Vacuola
March 18th, 2010, 06:29 PM
I find very interesting everything that all of you had said!!!!! I believe that life is maybe full of crisis, problems and moments that make us who we are!!!!! Only the brave ones can walk through this difficult path. Even when we feel like everything is lost.
Sapphire
March 18th, 2010, 07:00 PM
I think it's a combination of peer pressure (to be cool, to not be "crazy" (rather ironic, I know) or whatever), separating oneself from ones parents and the consequential conflicts, and the changes/turmoil that seem to come hand in hand with adolescence. Throw genetics and the effect our cultural has on things into the mix as well and you end up with a recipe for disaster in some cases.
Vacuola
March 18th, 2010, 07:12 PM
I believe that is more an hormonal state. When there are different changes in their concentrations, mainly with highest concentration. This alterations are the responsible ones that make us feel unstable and fragile.
Separating oneself from ones parents and the consequential conflicts, and the changes/turmoil that seem to come hand in hand with adolescence.
And we can't forget about the difficult moments when we as juvenile adults have to determine and select an option that can change our future.
soniyajack
March 19th, 2010, 05:50 AM
Most youths who attempt suicide are experiencing a psychological problem such as depression or bipolar disorder, a substance abuse problem, or both6. A teen's experiences and history also can increase the chance that he will attempt suicide. For instance, he has a greater risk of attempting suicide if his family has a history of suicide, if he has previously harmed himself or attempted suicide, or if he has run away. A young person also may attempt suicide in response to an extremely stressful event, loss, or conflict with another person.
Scarface
March 19th, 2010, 11:06 AM
depression friends family. It all ties in together school can be another contributor
Vacuola
March 19th, 2010, 02:49 PM
Most youths who attempt suicide are experiencing a psychological problem such as depression or bipolar disorder, a substance abuse problem, or both6.
Is very important how this feelings makes people hurt them selfs. How they make us believe that all is lost and that our value is mediocrity. In that moment people forget who they are and what is their purpose in life.
Sapphire
March 19th, 2010, 02:59 PM
I believe that is more an hormonal state. When there are different changes in their concentrations, mainly with highest concentration. This alterations are the responsible ones that make us feel unstable and fragile.
And we can't forget about the difficult moments when we as juvenile adults have to determine and select an option that can change our future.
I think you'll find that all of this ^ can be included under "the changes/turmoil that seem to come hand in hand with adolescence"
Omgthatsme
March 19th, 2010, 03:04 PM
Depression.
2D
March 19th, 2010, 05:33 PM
Hormones.
Many teenage problems are blown up and self-created.
Brighter.Tomorrow
March 19th, 2010, 10:11 PM
2D is right to an extent. We all have problems, and what we do to handle them is different from person to person. From stress to feeling alone. We all face something different and how we see them changes. There's nothing to some up everyone, we can all end our problem or make them a little better. When you say 'mental crisis' what do you mean? Crying? Cutting? Abuse? Murder? They are all forms of a mental crisis, but to different points.
Any 'crisis' for me, I've learned to handle, and when I truly can't I listen to music.
Vacuola
March 28th, 2010, 01:14 AM
When you say 'mental crisis' what do you mean? Crying? Cutting? Abuse? Murder?
For me, a mental crisis is a moment of mental struggle. Is when we have to take decisions that are difficult to make. And when we feel like the structure of our "world" is collapsing against us.
Nickk XD
March 28th, 2010, 01:48 AM
Hey all,
A mental crisis during teenage years may be due to ABSOLUTELY nothing...whenever hormone levels fluctuate, so does your mood. Think of how women have "their time of the month"...during puberty, you're always in that type of mood.
Sometimes, things can trigger it to make it worse...like school, family, etc. But there will always be times your down for no reason.
I, myself, attempt to be happy. I at least fake happy whenever i'm mad. People get pissed that I'm happy when they feel I should be upset. By the way, if you need to be cheered up...I'm a great person to talk to.
thedudeman
May 18th, 2010, 08:46 PM
for me personally, its conflict, i cant fight, i cant, but i get angry, a lot, and i hate that i do but i try to accept it, i guess it makes me a coward but you cant help what you cant control
there is a specific situation that sets me off, if i give someone some money, say to get me something, and then they dont, and say theyll give it back, but dont on when they said they would, even just once, i go completely overboard
i start thinking their plotting against me and hating myself, i get paranoid, angry anxious, depressed, im in this situation right now, i gave some kid 8 dollars, on sunday, and he was supposed to get me something monday but called and said he couldn't and said he would bring back the money later, and said he couldn't cuz he wasn't at home, and now today he's supposed to give me the money, but i'm completely convinced he wont, even though he's a really nice dude and is into being a really good person, he's a hippy, pretty much just like me, but my mind will take a super duper nice person and turn them into a total nutcase thats plotting against me and wants me dead or humiliated.
i think each of us has a few specific qwarks that cause panic or depression, mine is confrontation, others might be talking to a girl, or feeling inadequate or lonely, it depends person to person really
Ryhanna
May 19th, 2010, 12:41 AM
I think that dispite the pressures of being a teen lol it's subconciously the change we're going through mentally.
We go from being happy, carefree little kids to being adults. A lot changes, I think it's mainly the pressure of those changes that causes us to be the way we can be.
Asylum
May 19th, 2010, 10:35 AM
trauma, and expeirnces and the everyday pressures aswell.
Sith Lord 13
May 20th, 2010, 10:57 PM
Stress
Alfred Pennyworth
May 22nd, 2010, 01:01 AM
for me, i have narrowed it down to what i call the 3 s's (yes, i know they overlap a bit)
Stress
School
Siblings
of course, there are more, but these are the cause of all that i've seen
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