A wee bit of a problem..

[Marcie]

Well, I am kinda supposed to go on a date Friday... And my problem is I don't really want to anymore..
I've got so very many doubts in my head.. Heck, I don't even know if I like this person anymore.. I'm not entirely sure what to do.. I had (about two months ago) told this person that I liked them (and they told me they liked me too) and nothing had happened directly after that.. but now it's like here we go, date time!
I think for the first time ever I've been pressured into doing something I don't really want to do.. What a great thing to break on...
Problem #1. I don't know if I like this person I'm going out with Friday.
Problem #2. I think I like someone else.. not sure though.
Help?

[Ryhanna]

Hm. Thats a problem for sure.
I suggest maybe go on the date just to see if you change your mind. But have an excuse to leave early just incase it's a dud - Homework or something.
Because you never know, sometimes your head talks you out of something that you actually really enjoy.

[Hollywood]

i think you just need to tell them straight up that you dont think this will work. if you go on a date with them, and find out you really dont like them, then its going to be much harder to break it off later. then again, it could just be pre-date jitters. its honestly your decision, its a toughy

hope i helped

[Marcie]

Hm. Thats a problem for sure.
I suggest maybe go on the date just to see if you change your mind. But have an excuse to leave early just incase it's a dud - Homework or something.
Because you never know, sometimes your head talks you out of something that you actually really enjoy.
I don't know.. I'd feel kinda bad leaving early.. And she knows I wouldn't have any homework I need to do..

i think you just need to tell them straight up that you dont think this will work. if you go on a date with them, and find out you really dont like them, then its going to be much harder to break it off later. then again, it could just be pre-date jitters. its honestly your decision, its a toughy

hope i helped
"Pre-date jitters" hehe I don't know why I found that funny..
Anyway, I've kinda been feelin' like this for a while, not just before the date was planned..
also she's not picking up her phone so I don't think this is going to happen anyway.. lol

[just-another-guy]

Yah i see your prob. i have a prob like that right now and its kinda like you just have no idea what to do or where to go wit it. honestly i have to say follow your heart if you dont want to go on a date with the kid than tell them. its not worth leading them on you know. also if u like someone else try a date with them and find out for sure. but truly just go with your heart and you will be happy. people tend to over process things and then they end up in a really tight spot and people get hurt but if you follow your heart and you are happy than the people around you will also be happy.

[Marcie]

Yah i see your prob. i have a prob like that right now and its kinda like you just have no idea what to do or where to go wit it. honestly i have to say follow your heart if you dont want to go on a date with the kid than tell them. its not worth leading them on you know. also if u like someone else try a date with them and find out for sure. but truly just go with your heart and you will be happy. people tend to over process things and then they end up in a really tight spot and people get hurt but if you follow your heart and you are happy than the people around you will also be happy.

Problem is I don't know where my heart is trying to lead me.. It seems like I'm being pulled in every direction.
and I think going on a date with the other person might not work so well.

[SimplyTom]

well your feelings change for people every now and then just do what you feel is right in your head. You could tell the person that you just want to be friends for now and see how that goes.

[Marcie]

well your feelings change for people every now and then just do what you feel is right in your head. You could tell the person that you just want to be friends for now and see how that goes.

But I don't know what is right.. I kinda like both of them..

[SimplyTom]

But I don't know what is right.. I kinda like both of them..

well just say that u dont really feel that you want to go out with her and that you just need a bit of space at the moment.

[Marcie]

well just say that u dont really feel that you want to go out with her and that you just need a bit of space at the moment.

That's kinda dumb, seeing as though I was the one who asked.

[SimplyTom]

That's kinda dumb, seeing as though I was the one who asked.

well your feelings do change just say u dont want to anymore u've got something else on or something.

[Marcie]

well your feelings do change just say u dont want to anymore u've got something else on or something.

From like three days ago? That's kinda lame to back out like that..
She would know that I don't have anything else, I never do anything on Fridays.

[SimplyTom]

From like three days ago? That's kinda lame to back out like that..
She would know that I don't have anything else, I never do anything on Fridays.

You never do anything on a friday not even like once a month or once every two months? I guess you couldnt use that then

[Marcie]

You never do anything on a friday not even like once a month or once every two months? I guess you couldnt use that then

The only thing I ever do on Fridays is swing dancing, and she knows that I'm not doing that, because she knows it's not happening this Friday.

[SimplyTom]

The only thing I ever do on Fridays is swing dancing, and she knows that I'm not doing that, because she knows it's not happening this Friday.

you could always say that there is an extra session this week that has only just being confirmed.

[Marcie]

you could always say that there is an extra session this week that has only just being confirmed.

Well she goes to swing dancing too.. so I don't think that would work.. That and the fact that I will not lie..

[kyle95]

It's just a date mate, you're not getting married. Just don't do the immature thing of sulking, being inattentive, rude, and appearing like you want to immediately end it. It's not fair and it's not right: you're not the only person on this date. It's important to her too, so give her the benefit and treat her properly. Sometimes being friends means more to girls than being a bf. So keep your emotions out of this, be civil and make it a memorable night for the both of you - be a gentleman :)

[Marcie]

It's just a date mate, you're not getting married. Just don't do the immature thing of sulking, being inattentive, rude, and appearing like you want to immediately end it. It's not fair and it's not right: you're not the only person on this date. It's important to her too, so give her the benefit and treat her properly. Sometimes being friends means more to girls than being a bf. So keep your emotions out of this, be civil and make it a memorable night for the both of you - be a gentleman :)

I had no intention of doing that.
Although, in light of recent events, I no longer feel the way I felt when first posting this thread. (as in I'm perfectly willing and happy to go.) :-P