How I've Been Feeling.

[The Batman]

Lately I've been finding it harder to focus on school work in fact i have a lot of stuff due in a few days and i haven't even started on it. I've been cutting more then i have in a year(but stopped recently) and I just get random moments where I'm close in tears. I've also started doing other things that i haven't done in a while that a couple of you know about but I rather not go into detail. Just been feeling real bad and it's mainly because of the fact that if I'm not in a relationship I'm not happy and because of that I end up getting myself hurt even more. I just have way to many problems.

[Aspiringanonymous]

Take a deep breath, and take things one by one as they come. Focusing on the feeling of being overwhelmed will only magnify its intensity. Things are difficult right now, and that's okay. The worst of it will pass, as long as one is willing to stand up against its influence.

What are some ways to increase productivity which works for you? What about staying after school, going to the library, or even working with a friend? Working in a room without TV or computer? I've often been able to approach schoolwork as a distraction from problems - if you're able to really get into that state of complete focus, it's quite amazing. It's just the 'getting there' that can be most frustrating.

You seem to be aware of the causes behind your current state of mind - that's very good. But is it something that you're willing to address and perhaps change? - For the sake of your own well-being, in the present and future. Even though it may be much more difficult than it sounds, especially if its origins can be traced back far and deep, it is possible. The first step is simply deciding to give it a try.

Glad to hear that you've managed to stop cutting. That's something to be proud of. :)

May you feel better soon.

[CuriousDestruction]

Oh Tom i'm so sorry. i can't say much more here except know that you are surrounded by love and people who want to be here for you. PM or IM me if you wanna talk hun.

[The Batman]

I've decided that tomorrow i'm going to be working on my homework all day and finishing it up friday and I'm going to start being a lot more picky about the guys I date from now on. This is going to be hard but I need to work on being happy.

[Hatsune Miku]

I've decided that tomorrow i'm going to be working on my homework all day and finishing it up friday and I'm going to start being a lot more picky about the guys I date from now on. This is going to be hard but I need to work on being happy.

Glad to hear it.

It's hard, but everything will turn out good eventually
( would write more but I'm using my iPhone for this )

[Scarface]

I've decided that tomorrow i'm going to be working on my homework all day and finishing it up friday and I'm going to start being a lot more picky about the guys I date from now on. This is going to be hard but I need to work on being happy.

Tom you are such a kind hearted honest and an all around sweet person You deserve the best and to be happy. you will find the right guy and i will be by your side to help you with anything you need. Just keep your head up and remember to smile for me okay?

[Obscene Eyedeas]

Oh tommo, sweetheart. im here for you always you know that. you have my msn and we always talk. i am going to make sure you beat this Hun even if it means little or no sleep for the next few weeks. hugs. <3 you hunny