Girlfriend problems advice please!!

[Alec75]

Hey there im new here, and this girlfriend problem made me want to create an account in here, even though i do like this website :D
anyway
well my girlfriend and i have been together for 8 months, and its pretty much my longest , and serious relationship. hers too. and some problems might be added cause her parents dont let her date so i cant see her that much outside of school. she ignores me sometimes or avoids me, and she hasnt had her first kiss.. (still trying to get there:P) i love her, and i care alot about her, but we have had alot of arguements, we always get over them, but lately its been different. she hasnt let me hold her hand, she doesnt say i love u back, only if i ask she'll say ''okay i do'' which bothers me. yesterday though we got in an arguement because i asked ''what her feelings for me are'' and she didnt want to answer, ended up depressed thinking that she doesnt want to answer cause she doesnt like me anymore? i dont know anymore, idk what to do or say. but the truth is that im afraid to lose her, and i hope we dont break up, cause we've also been very happy together. what do u guys think? any advice? "/

sorry for the long paragraph, and if its confusing too . English improving ^^

[Asylum]

oh geez... i'm sorry man it sounds liek your relationship is falling apart, at least you treid to save your relationship... it appears her feelgins have perhaps changed.... ? you two should go for a walk, or sit down and talk aobut your relationship be honest on how you feel... ask her to do the same. . .

[Alec75]

We talked, she just doesnt know how much she likes mes, she does, but probably not as much as before? is it possible for her to start having strong feelings for me again?

[Flutterfly]

I was in her position before, it is possible she is just afraid of her parents finding out and is trying not to become too attached to you so that you or her (or both) don't get hurt.

[Art_dude]

I'm sorry bud :(

I don't want to burst your bubble, but it's possible she might plan on ending your relationship. I'm not saying that it will happen, but if she's showing less affection, romantic interest, and overall interaction, she might be losing interest in you. Unless of course she has a private issue going on and is projecting that onto your relationship. Confront her in a nice and gentle way and just ask, "Look, I've noticed that recently you've been acting a little differently around me (give examples x,y,z) and I just wanted to know if everything's o.k.?" If she explains she's having an issue, than great - it's not you. If she avoids it, she's probably concealing her true feelings. I know it sucks (if that's the case) but it happens. You get into a relationship, you like the person and then all of a sudden it loses its spark. It sounds like she's not trying hurt you from a bad place - talk to her and see how she's feeling. You'll beat her to the punch and show your maturity. Hope that helps.

[Alec75]

thanks for everything to you guys.
though we talked, she seems to be fine.. happy, the usual..acting like the arguement didnt happen. we're in spring break right now so all i can do is text and call her "/. im okay with it i guess, but i we get through this one, not sure how but i hope so, just thinking positive and keep moving forward ^^