View Full Version : In a tad of a pickle
macaulay
March 17th, 2010, 06:22 AM
Ok I am in a real predicament here guys. Whilst away on a school camp I was sharing a large room with a group of boys, one of which I am good friends with the others not so much. Me and my friend had our own room to ourselves within this room so we decided to play truth. When asked who I thought was hot I honestly answered which involved me coming out of the closet to my friend, the people though who I answered happened to be the people in the same room as us but in a different part. But the problem with this is that I have a loud voice and they heard everything I said and now they are telling people and such. I was wondering if people had ideas maybe on a way that I can convince them I'm not gay despite the fact I am until I am ready to come out to evryone besides just my close friends.
Scarface
March 17th, 2010, 06:54 AM
Well to me it sounds like your in a real jam here. I myself am gay.The thing is now your out you may have to accept it. I am proud of what i am . I came out when i was 14 because i knew my mind was made up because i knew i never had an attraction to females so by 15 everyone knew.I love who i am because i wouldn't wanna b any different. If you think you absolutely have to deny this because of what others will think say it was joke and come out when your ready. If you need to talk im always here PM me anytime
beedubs
March 17th, 2010, 09:50 PM
When my parents asked me at first i said no, but i realized that ill have to say yes eventually and since we were on the topic it was easier. On school people would askme and id say yes. Its better to be who you truley are then lie an change your mind. But its all your personal prefference
just-another-guy
March 17th, 2010, 09:55 PM
it shouldn't really matter that people know because they shouldn't treat you any diff than they did you know what i mean. but if you feel your not ready than i would have to say duck low and let it blow over and then you can come out when your ready. also this could be help full it can make it easier to tell some people if they already have an idea. and try to look at the bright side your true friends will be there to help you no matter what.
CuriousDestruction
March 17th, 2010, 10:08 PM
you can't un-ring a bell mate. you may have to come out now, it seems like the best time actually. the hardest part is admitting it the first time. now you just gotta let it go. people may talk for awhile but you never need to deny your sexuality again.
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