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screamtobeheard
March 16th, 2010, 09:14 PM
Alright so I'll be 16 in less than a month. And I've never had a boyfriend. It's not like I'm a complete reject or anything, I've turned guys down before. But that doesn't mean I don't want a boyfriend ever. In fact, I'd really like one, I just can't seem to find one I like. Any advice?

staying_alive
March 16th, 2010, 09:30 PM
Keep lookin. They're out there ;)

I know you're asking for some magic formula, but all i can tell you is that relationships are hit and miss. If you've turned guys down before, they're obviously interested. Take your expectations down if you want a guy, no one's perfect.

Also, in the course of a relationship, both people develop. You end up liking the person more and they adapt to your likes and dislikes. You gotta jump in to find a guy you like. Take chances, that's what life's about.

Centrist
March 16th, 2010, 11:12 PM
^^
Agreed.

Though, relationships are way more about solving petty indifferences while accepting and loving another's flaws.

Scarface
March 17th, 2010, 03:36 AM
There are plenty of fish in the sea. You will find your right guy if you need to make a list of traits that you think that you would like in a guy and look for it. Sometimes even if they are not perfect just giving it a shot and taking a chance with a cute guy is okay too make the right choices though. Love is one of the happiest things that i have found on this earth. of course there are ups and downs in relationships, but hey so is in life. I hope you find the guy you are looking for and i hope that this helped

screamtobeheard
March 17th, 2010, 07:20 PM
Thanks, guys. (:

Alec75
March 17th, 2010, 10:19 PM
agree with everyone, youl'll find the right person you like for sure, u just gotta keep looking, one thing i think u could do is give some other guys a chance to see if u might actually start liking them, like personality and everything. and if not you can just let them go, but you'll start seeing what kinda guys you like and everything :P hope this helps?

just-another-guy
March 17th, 2010, 10:23 PM
this is another agree :-) lol just keep looking you will find the right guy and even if the first one isent the right one just keep looking out there. you will know when its the right one.