Flutterfly
March 16th, 2010, 10:40 AM
So, in December I met my friend from when I was really little. I hadn't seen her in maybe 8-9 years. She's about 3 years younger than I am, but that's never caused problems in any of my friendships before. Se we started hanging out a lot and had some classes at this place we go to on Fridays together. At first, when we were building that relationship I was working on certain problems in other relationships, and she'd talk to me all the time. But I'm not really one for talking to everyone all the time, especially when all they talk about is "I did/think this and today I found out that means your depressed!"
When her and I first started talking it was fun, I mean, we talked about our problems, but we were working on fixing them and we talked about other things too. Lately she'd been only talking about her problems with no hope of trying to fix them. And I haven't been in the mood to talk a lot. To anyone. I've been caught up in school. So she thought I was mad at her, but she wasn't saying anything to me, and she was doing this with one of my best friends as well. Then, last weekend she asked me if I was mad. I told her I'm not, because, well, I'm not. I explained to her that I'm not completely the same person as I was a few month ago because I've been dealing with a lot and pulling through it and keep getting more problems brought to me to get through. So I've been changing, for the better. And then I thought it was all worked out.
Yesterday she disappeared off Facebook to me and the adult that I go to for advice. I can't even find her on Facebook, but the adult still can they just aren't listed as friends anymore. So she's blocked me. I tried texting her, I tried contacting her but she won't answer me at all. I'm so confused, I don't know what happened and she won't talk to me now... I SHOULD see her Friday... but I'm not sure.
There is a slight possibility that she has started cutting, or something of the sort and now her therapist, since she is adopted, has removed her from her friends.
When her and I first started talking it was fun, I mean, we talked about our problems, but we were working on fixing them and we talked about other things too. Lately she'd been only talking about her problems with no hope of trying to fix them. And I haven't been in the mood to talk a lot. To anyone. I've been caught up in school. So she thought I was mad at her, but she wasn't saying anything to me, and she was doing this with one of my best friends as well. Then, last weekend she asked me if I was mad. I told her I'm not, because, well, I'm not. I explained to her that I'm not completely the same person as I was a few month ago because I've been dealing with a lot and pulling through it and keep getting more problems brought to me to get through. So I've been changing, for the better. And then I thought it was all worked out.
Yesterday she disappeared off Facebook to me and the adult that I go to for advice. I can't even find her on Facebook, but the adult still can they just aren't listed as friends anymore. So she's blocked me. I tried texting her, I tried contacting her but she won't answer me at all. I'm so confused, I don't know what happened and she won't talk to me now... I SHOULD see her Friday... but I'm not sure.
There is a slight possibility that she has started cutting, or something of the sort and now her therapist, since she is adopted, has removed her from her friends.