Getting my tubes tied

[Spinder]

I'm 100% I never, ever want to have kids. Someone once said something really extremely nasty to me on a website once that really stuck in my memory, that especially made me never want to have kids. A lot of people, especialyl that person have sayed a lot of extremely nasty thing to me but that one really hit me very hard. I never, ever want to have children. I KNOW I don't. :cry:

How old do you have to be to get your tubes tied in Canada? How do you find a doctor who will do it? Is there a lot of consultation and begging crap to go through? :(

[Aspiringanonymous]

Teen Sexuality :arrow: General Hospital

[Asylum]

if you dont; want kids then use condoms and birth contorl, people change, you might want them sometiem, i'd suggest agasint getting your tubes tide, you don't know if your decision will change i 20 years... what happens if your tubes are tied and your decision changed? it's better to jsut use condoms and birth contorl this way it prevents kids, and gives you that option for a just in case


but i'm not stopping you from what you want if thats what you want 100% then go for it. i'm just saying there is another way for a just in case situation.

[Sapphire]

You shouldn't let other people's nasty comments affect you like this. They aren't worth it.

Yuki is right. You would be better off using protection every time you have sex instead. Everyone goes through a period of (to varying degrees) knowing that they will never want kids. I've sure as hell had it and not for the typical reasons either. But things do change so it's best to just take precautions.

[ShatteredWings]

Most doctors won't do it to a teen without a serious medical reason (like it could kill you to get preganat)

you're probably just gonna have to wait a few years until they think you're 'old enough' to make this decision. ..whenever that is

[Ryhanna]

Woah, drastic much?!
I suggest you google 'condoms' and see what that's about.
You might change your mind about having kids, especially when you are married and your partner wants kids.

[INFERNO]

You would likely need to be a legal adult and/or have a serious medical reason for the procedure to occur. If you have neither, then no doctor will likely do so as their license and practice is on thin ice. I suggest you use methods of birth control for two reasons. First, suppose down the road you change your mind and people can change their mind drastically. Unfortunately, you cannot do much about it then, other than look back at this moment and wish you had never done the procedure. You may be certain now but years later, maybe even a few months later, you may change your mind. Second, don't let comments from anyone, whether online or in-person affect you this much.

[bradsmokes]

sounds good to me :):)

[Kaius]

Please don't bump old threads. :locked: