when times change

[Gumleaf]

there is no question here, just saying how i am feeling. it's just hit me today while talking to someone who i have been friends with for about 2 years that times are changing and people and their priorities are changing. i feel like i have lost another friend today, when really i haven't persay, but it feels like i have. she talked about the different things in her life now and what she is doing and i was happy for her that things are going well for her but at the same time sad that things aren't how they used to be anymore. i know i don't deal with change well, but i fear this is going to become a regular thing and i'm going to be left behind. i can't honestly see myself as friendless, but i can see myself as being really empty on the inside. it hurts, but i guess its part of life isn't it? anyways, thats all.

[Wonder.]

You're never going to be friendless. Sure you've lost aome good friends but I'm sure you've made some good friends too. You are never going to be alone.

I am bad at change too. I miss the past but I have moved on. I lost a good friend last year but at the same gained three amazing new friends. I know I will probably lose them eventually but that's why I make the best of it while it lasts.

And I'm sure you've made some friends while here on VT. And at your job. And at school (if you go to school).

You are going to be left behind by some of your friends but someone will come along and follow you on your trail of life (the cheesiest thing I have ever said, but true).

I wish you luck with your friends.

[Ryhanna]

Friends come and go.
True friends stay with you no matter what.
But as we get older we outgrow these friends and move on, leaving our childhood and expanding into adulthood.

[Scarface]

Friends come and go.
True friends stay with you no matter what.
But as we get older we outgrow these friends and move on, leaving our childhood and expanding into adulthood.

Stay in contact with these people. Don't let life pass you by make new friends and start the journey of life. It took me quite a long time to wake up and make friends and become the person i am today. You won't be friendless Pm me if you ever want to talk. I can talk to you a little more. Hope this helps and remember do not hesitate to PM if you feel bored lonely whatever it may be ill be here. as always. hope this helps you are not alone.

[Ryhanna]

Stay in contact with these people. Don't let life pass you by make new friends and start the journey of life. It took me quite a long time to wake up and make friends and become the person i am today. You won't be friendless Pm me if you ever want to talk. I can talk to you a little more. Hope this helps and remember do not hesitate to PM if you feel bored lonely whatever it may be ill be here. as always. hope this helps you are not alone.

... I'm not alone? lol
Thanks for the thought, though Ronnie :)

[Mattasaur94]

16 is a hard age.
Everything and everyone is changing... I'm not there yet, but I had to sit around and listen to my brothers and a couple of my friends go through "their stages".
It seems hard, but its the time where you find out who you are.
If you don't like the empty spot, find what fills it. Speak with your friends, while things change, true friends will never leave you, and if they do, it's usually not becuase of a minor issue.
Sometimes it's just part of growing up.
Don't loose hope. (: