Ok im freaking out here

[omg101]

I cant breathe at times cause the anxiety! I basically had unprotected oral sex the other day andscared i may have a std I have no symptoms yet but im the type of person who get frantic about any lil medical issue and i dont want to tell my parents about it when i may not even have it an have a big old fiasco! I mean im just scared any advice should i wait for symptoms of oral std's to occur i dont want to blow this out of porportion. Im just really scared because it was my first time of having any kind of sex so lil help guys

[Jamie]

If you think the guy you gave head to may of had some sort of STD... simply go ask him if there's anything you need to worry about. If he say's 'no', but you still aren't completely convinced... I'd say just go have a check performed. I believe you can have many STD checks at local free clinics.

In the future though, if you are unsure about the guy having a disease like such. You either... shouldn't do it, or have him wear a flavored condom.

[CuriousDestruction]

okay, first, CALM DOWN. breath, take a chill pill, take a nap, drink some water, do what you need to do to calm yourself. 2nd, are you a guy or girl? is your partner a guy or girl? 3rd, did you receive or give oral? 4th, if you want to get tested, go to a doctor, they run these tests without telling your parents. 5th, you can also just ask your partner if he/she has any STDs. lastly, remember that, although certainly possible, it is more difficult to receive STDs through oral sex than through vaginal or anal sex.

[clovermcm]

Well I can't beat the above post now can I? I'll basicly be repeating, but the more reassurance the better, no?
Definately the first thing to do is stay calm, because fretting over it won't make anything better. Ask your partner if they have a possibility of any STD, and then get checked at your doctor.
Good luck, and stay positive :]

[Mattasaur94]

I agree with everyone above.
Try and breathe. Anxiety sucks, but try not to get too hung up about it.
A fair few people get worried about STD's (STI's these days) after sex, be it oral or any other form.
If your really worried, as said above, go get a test done, talk to the guy, it might be awkward, but, hey, better safe than sorry, right? (:

ADDED: Welcome to VT, by the way. ^^

[Scarface]

I understand you anxiety just remain calm and talk to him and discuss if he has had any history of STI's or any questionable problem he has had. If you feel insecure about it be sure to go to a doctor ans reassure yourself. I know the anxiety. juts calm down everything will work out. PM me if you need someone to talk to