Best Friend

[anthonysayhi]

Hey Everyone im Anthony And i need Help I'm almost 14 and my friend is 14 and he keeps asking if i would masturbate with him and jack him off and like we hang out all the time and i sleep over at his house and he asks me all this and like he has a girl friend and i dont know what to do can you Help Please :)

[Disconected]

the question u should ask urself is do YOU want to j/o with him. if the answer is yes then go for it and only do wht u feel comfortable with. if the answer is no tell him that ur not interested and leave it at that

[jake07]

You have to do what is right for you and what you're comfortable with.

[IanMilo]

It's your choice, he is obviously curious but if it would be awkward for you then dont do it

[spaz]

if you're both curious and it feels comfortable then go for it man :D

[CuriousDestruction]

it's up to you dude. it's normal to experiment but it's totally your choice.

[pontiacdriver]

Hey Everyone im Anthony And i need Help I'm almost 14 and my friend is 14 and he keeps asking if i would masturbate with him and jack him off and like we hang out all the time and i sleep over at his house and he asks me all this and like he has a girl friend and i dont know what to do can you Help Please :)

The answer to this question is very subjective, and everything depends upon your comfort level in doing this. The fact that you are asking us about this shows to me that you have doubts about masturbating with your friend. As a result, if you really do not want to do this, then let this guy know directly and tell him to drop the subject. If he won't let up on masturbating with you, then I would put your friendship with him on ice until he respects your decision. After all, at that point it is an issue of respect as opposed to sex, and your friend has to respect you. My view is that since you have not responded in the affirmative to masturbating with this guy thus far he really should have dropped this long ago.

Will masturbating with your friend make you "gay?" No, as homosexuality is something which is not a choice. However, remember that if you do sexual things with a friend that your friendship may change from that of a friendship to more of a relationship. Also, experimenting or doing sexual things with friends can mess things up. Finally, masturbating to one guy might just be fun while to the other it is a lot more than that. The result is that such different perceptions can lead to conflict.

Before I forget, you always have to keep in mind that what if his parent(s) walk in on you both, you both are caught by someone, or your friend has loose lips and tells others about what you both did? Definitely do not put yourself in a position where you can be embarassed.

Anyway, you know your friendship best and what your limits are. If you are comfortable with sharing your body with your friend, then do what you feel like doing. If you want to stay friends and nothing more than that, then I would tell your friend you are not interested and to respect your choice.

[L]

you never really said if you want to masturbate with him or not. if you want to then do it if you don't want to then don't. its as simple as that.

[newfiee 13]

Man if oyou want to do it then do it but if your are unsure then don't. I had doubts before I my fist time but I ended up dong it and it was fun. Lol any way it's your choice

[Cosmic]

He has a girlfriend, no you should not. If anything, you should be reprimanding him for trying to effectively cheat on his girlfriend. Just because it's experimentation does not mean it makes their relationship any less exclusive.

[Scarface]

Whatever you feel comfortable with. If you think it will become a situation and might come in between the friendship then i wouldn't do it because it can make things awkward. These kinds of things can ruin friendships. If you want to then go for it. Curiosity is normal, but as long as You both are comfortable with it.

[salamandr]

Do what u want, it's fine either way.

[hollar123]

do it

[CarnivorousBat]

you gotta ask yourself that question. if you feel comfortable go ahead. it could be fun

[ray8806]

Will masturbating with your friend make you "gay?" No, as homosexuality is something which is not a choice.

I have to disagree with that. Homosexuality IS a choice. You can't be born gay. It's choice you have to make on your own.

But anyway, back to the original question. Like everyone else has said, if you feel comfortable in doing it, go for it.

But if you don't, then tell him 'no'. Explain to him that your just not comfortable in j/o with him right now and leave it with that. Make sure to say , "right now" because, who knows. You may want to later...unless you seriously doubt it. Then you can delete that part. The main thing is, be honest. I'm sure he will understand. Tell him how you feel about it. But again, BE HONEST.

I wish you the best of luck! :)

[Cosmic]

I have to disagree with that. Homosexuality IS a choice. You can't be born gay. It's choice you have to make on your own.


You're very wrong. Almost all evidence suggests that homosexuality, just like heterosexuality, is something you are born into. There is no choice involved. Why would someone choose something which has such a negative stigma attached to it? If you're going to call someone out on something, at least do your research. This isn't about your opinion; this is about fact.

[cherry_boi]

I have to disagree with that. Homosexuality IS a choice. You can't be born gay. It's choice you have to make on your own.



homosexuality is not a choice

you can't choose who u fall in love with

you can't choose who or what you find attractive, if we could dictate our own feelings as such then we'd pretty much be robots....

anyway...

it depends, if you feel comfortable with it then there is no problem with being curious and acting on that

tho i can't say i agree with you engaging in sexual activities with him while he has a gf....but i guess at 14 that probly wont be lasting long anyway....

just make sure ur both secure enough in your relationship that you can handle any awkward or guilty feelings should they arise from either side...

[playboy]

i'd say go for it cause jacking with your friends bring you closer

[nhahn50]

if your comfortable with it then do it. if not then just tell him that.

[MykeSoBe]

If I were you I would jump at the chance (because I am making slower progress with my buddies, but am growing less patient and more honry), but it seems you care about friendship a lot, it seems you actually.. care.. so do what your conscious tells you to do, try not to give into hornyness though like I would :D

[Hollywood]

do whatever ur comfortable with. if u dont feel comfortable, just tell him u dont want to.

[Judas]

I would if I were you :)

[Maverick]

i'd say go for it cause jacking with your friends bring you closer
Can also put you further apart as well.

[mathew911]

If you want to do it think it trough, it may ruin your friendship. If you dont want to, tell him and he should understand. He will stop asking after some time I think.

[penn10]

Dude, you're a teenager go for it if you are cofmfortable with it
just make sure u wont regret it

[Zackk]

Dude, i wish i was in your boat. lool

[kenshin8106]

its up to u, do u feel comfortable doing it? then take it slow and give it a try, if not then dont bother, just tell him ur not comfortable doing it with him, or just compromise, compare or do sumtin like flashin ur dick or something, he prolly just wants to see ur junk

[halotwoiscoo]

The main thing that you should do is ask yourself what you want to do, if you want to do it go for it, maby he is a little curious and wants to see where you are at?

[baller_andy]

as everyone else has said if you dont wanna do it then dont do it. if your cool then id do it. its totally ur call.

[xxkvmxx]

When I was 12 I used to have a friend that would ask me the same stuff all the time. I actually decided to go for it and ended up liking it. We did it for a while until he got a girlfriend. But yea I liked it, and probably some of the reason why I like boys.

[andy1214]

it all depends on what you think, if you want to do it, go for it

[SimplyTom]

well its up to u remember no one can make u do anything

[josh93]

well if you feel comforntbal with it go right ahead. I know i would.

[Spoookster]

if you're both curious and it feels comfortable then go for it man :D

Exactly my point

[Travis22]

Go for it dude its a good experience youll regret it if u never do it :)

[patto]

If i was u i would do it. You only live once! Make it count!

[RadioPlayer]

I would go for it. When I jacked off with my friend, it lead to both of us giving each other blow jobs. It felt amazing and if your curious, just give it a try. Puberty is exciting, enjoy it to the fullest.

[randomlyonhere]

its your choice but its fine if you do, it dont make you gay or anything, and as you can see from above its normal

[RadioPlayer]

its your choice but its fine if you do, it dont make you gay or anything, and as you can see from above its normal

Yeah, it wont make you gay. Dont worry about that.

[Lukemathews94]

Just compare then Jo but yourself first iif you like it then jo him

[hhhh]

i prob would, because it would be fun

[Kitty Purry]

You really need to ask yourself if you think that it's a good thing to do. It can make your friendship akward after. So it's up to you, don't just do it because he keeps asking you. And make sure you thinking with the "right head" lol :p .

[Hollister17]

um really u need to ask YOURSELF do i want to. because wants IT happens you CANT take it back. I would keep friends with friends cuse ultimitley it COULD hurt your friendship together (you would be surprised). ultimitley its UP to YOU

[biscuit]

I have masturbated with a friend before. It was fun. Nothing gay about it. So I say go ahead and try it. Can't hurt much can it?

[Jomiseguel]

If I were you, I would do it, but it is your choice.

[owen daniels]

It sounds like he is just curious you should just go for it and see what happens

[Fedex]

If you want, do it... :yes:

[GamerX20]

I think you should do what feels right. I mean you guys are both going through a lot of hormonal changes and may have weird feeling and stuff. try it and see what happens

[blounster2]

dont do it really dont

[Incognito]

If YOU wanna do it, go ahead. I personally probably would but only if you want to.

[trae96]

i'd say its up to you.. if u want to then do it

[crazycoller]

Do whatever you feel comfortable with. If you want to go with him but not maybe as far as he is thinking, set boundaries before hand or else just tell him that your not into that kind of stuff. If he is a true friend he will understand.

[Lucas]

Just do whatever feels right for you. Do it only if you want to.

[JayJay1]

hey mate if you feel right doing it well go for it
gee i wish i had the guts like your mate i got a friend in mind but i dont know how
to ask
your friend oviously really trusts you its something special he probably feels like
he ruined your friendship if you decide no make sure to explain why and dont
just like leave him forever because he will blame it on himself even if it was his fault
take it easy on him his got it hard enough it sounds like

[sigroigarak]

go for it! what will it hurt?

[sooocrazzzy]

only do it if you really want to

[sooocrazzzy]

it can ruin a friendship though so be careful but if you are REAL friends it probably wont harm it so dont be too scared to

[Hyiirocks]

I had the sane question whatever feels right if u want to then go for it if not then just tell him no I'm sorry I don't want to.

[Sonic15]

jus do it with him if u want to
if u dont then say no

[matherew]

it all depends on if you comfertable with it

[michel513]

Well its up to you dude if you want to jerk off with him. it could bring you guys closer..

[MELL-AHH-KNEE]

you should do what ever suits you best, i mean i have never personally experienced anything in this situation but, you dont have to do anything you dont want to.

[Andredavid]

You should do what makes you comfortable

[Forever.Nandos]

Do what YOU think is right for YOU.
Its not anybody elses decision, But you did say his your bestfriend, and this may cause awkwardness after.

[Silver13]

well its up to u
if u want to do it with him tell him okay
if u dont say no

[Guitarman]

Do you want to masterbate with him? Are happy to let him see your penis? Are you fine with seeing his penis?

I've masterbated with my best friend and loved it. He wasn't too sure about at start. But he did it anyway. He was kind of shy but our friendship is fine still

[GamerX20]

if he is your best friend then that means that you guys can trust each other. Do what feels right.

[spaz]

do whatever your comfortable with!

[ImCoolBeans]

do it only if your okay and comfortable with it

[adamwest]

you should think about if you would honestly like to try it if you do then do it if you dont want to then dont.

[Iron Man]

It is up to you if you want to. But make sure you think it is the right decision.

[cristian123]

go for it if ur comfterable with it lol

[aaronboy]

Do it with him. It'll be fun.

[CantBeTamed]

None Of Us Can Tell You What To Do But All I Can Say Is Do What You Feel Is Right

[cody 1995]

do it

[newfie-boy]

I really think you should do it if you want to. It's not gay or anything, and its fun! It'll probably even make your friendship better

[sportsguy1997]

Do wat u want to do, but dont feel like u r forced to do wat he wants!!!

[OhMightyLion]

If you want to, go for it..but don't let him pressure you into anything. If you don't want to, just let him know..

[Konnor]

i would do it.

[Trackstar29]

Doo what u want but make sure hes okay with it also.

[josh93]

Its hard to get ask to jackoff and the person that asks you has a gf and wonder if you say yes will do bad. So it is hard to say if you should or shouldnt because you never know what will happen. I kinda say go for it in a way. But if you dont feel comfontable jacking off with him due to him haveing a gf you dont have to say yes.

[aerobooster]

If you don't want to do it, don't do it it's your choice after all

[brandon6123]

i would do it
its fun

[toobig]

do it and if u dnt like it it's been ruled out

[boyscanbecurious]

do it if you are comfortable with it

[abcd920]

are u interested in jerking with him or not and ognore the gf bros b4 hoes

[sooocrazzzy]

depends if you want to

[jimmycouch14]

You have to decide if you want to and if your friendship will take it.

[loizos.chris]

just try it, if you don't like it then you don't like it
lesson learned

[ballin09]

If you feel pressured and don't want to do it, then don't, if you want to go ahead with it.

[justin26]

if u wana do it go for it but dont be forced into it

[GeneralCrash70]

If your comfortable with it, then do it, it might be fun...

[lil emo boy]

it depends if u want to do itt. itz very fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[ImCoolBeans]

do only what you feel is right

[Titan]

If you are comfortable with it then do it. But remember that he has a girl friend and if she finds out then she might get hurt and tell everyone.

[coolkid1]

I say do it, though it's up to you. Many people believe that the next step in a friendship/relationship is engaging in activities such as masturbating together. Ask him why he wants to do it so bad, then say your answer.

[Maverick]

This thread is went on enough getting pointless at this stage.