Bi Parents

[Skeletal-Chic]

I was thinking:

Does anyone here have bisexual parents? What are your relationships with them like? Is it awkward or very open?

Also, is anyone here a bisexual who wants to become a parent? What will you do about it? Will you just say you are straight? Or tell your children you are bisexual?

A conundrum methinks! :D

[Sapphire]

I'm bisexual and I would one day like to have children.
I say "one day" because I have issues to work through first! Lol.

I think I would tell them about my sexuality - I wouldn't want them to feel they have to keep theirs a secret from me so why should I keep mine from them?

[vic203140]

Im bi my sis is bi and so is my mum no big deal

[honeybear]

my mom has had a couple girlfriends since her and daddy got divorced...everyone knows I'm bi and yes I want to have kids eventually :)

[mr.sexy_bomb]

i am bisexual, and i would want to adopt when i am older, and i will explain to him/her how things are and all, and try to be open and answear any questions they might have.



-axel

[shadow_moses]

I'm bi and plan on having kids.. still a tad young, but I would think they would get kinda curious as to why daddy wears a thong.. so yes I would tell them.

[Peace God]

it depends on if my wife knows if im bi... but i would be ok if one of my offspring was lesbian/gay or bi...in fact id be pretty happy

[Sapphire]

it depends on if my wife knows if im bi... but i would be ok if one of my offspring was lesbian/gay or bi...in fact id be pretty happy
Why might you not tell your wife? :-S

[Peace God]

Why might you not tell your wife? :-S

cuz im in the closet... i would hav to find out her views on it first

[Sapphire]

cuz im in the closet... i would hav to find out her views on it first
Don't you think that the person you marry should accept you for who you are and not for who you would have them believe you are?

[Peace God]

Don't you think that the person you marry should accept you for who you are and not for who you would have them believe you are?
trust me, i understand what you're sayin but i really wouldn't wanna ruin a good relationship over that... and right now i dont think it matters that much because i dont plan on cheating on my wife... my attitude might change on this later but right now i just dont think its worth it

:confused:idk lol

[Sapphire]

trust me, i understand what you're sayin but i really wouldn't wanna ruin a good relationship over that... and right now i dont think it matters that much because i dont plan on cheating on my wife... my attitude might change on this later but right now i just dont think its worth it

:confused:idk lol
Bisexuals are perfectly capable of being monogamous so what has cheating got to do with it?

And if you don't trust the woman you choose to marry then how can you possibly truly love her?

[Peace God]

Bisexuals are perfectly capable of being monogamous so what has cheating got to do with it? And if you don't trust the woman you choose to marry then how can you possibly truly love her?
i guarantee you there's already ppl i truly love that do not fully approve of gays/bisexuals
i guess it comes down to wat i said before right now i dont think it's worth it. i hope u understand where im comin from... at the moment as unhealthy as it might seem im okay with not coming out

[Sapphire]

i guarantee you there's already ppl i truly love that do not fully approve of gays/bisexuals
i guess it comes down to wat i said before right now i dont think it's worth it. i hope u understand where im comin from... at the moment as unhealthy as it might seem im okay with not coming out
I'm not talking about the here and now. I'm talking about in the future when you get married.
Marriage should only be entered into if you trust the other person enough to tell them something like this. You have to trust someone before you can love them truly and properly.

[Carfreakjack]

Well idk I guess depends but I plan on being a nudist when get older so ya I guess I would tell my kids bc I would want to be very open with them

[Ryhanna]

Im bi and plan on having kids. With a woman. I can't see myself settling down with a guy and having kids.