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Kaya
March 14th, 2010, 11:15 PM
ok, so i just lost my little brother samuel. ever since then ive been having really vivid, scary nightmares. either i die or someone else does. and since i started school ive been hearing things too. am i crazy? or is it just cuz im upset?

Katrina
March 14th, 2010, 11:18 PM
I'm sorry to hear about your brother.
You dream about people and things you think about in the waking time. Thinking about your brother too often gives you these nightmares. Try to have more interests and that will make you think of your brother less often. In sleep these bad thoughts come into your head and the dream wakes you up. Try to look forward to your own future and look after yourself.

Kaya
March 14th, 2010, 11:19 PM
thank u

CuriousDestruction
March 15th, 2010, 01:05 AM
i'm so sorry for the loss of your brother. it can be very hard, especially at 13. vivid nightmares are normal after an emotional blow like losing your bro unfortunately. but at least you aren't crazy. however, hearing things, that is concerning. i suggest talking to a grief counselor or psychiatrist. hearing things can also be from emotional pain or it can be more serious.

Mattasaur94
March 15th, 2010, 06:46 AM
The dreams can be explained by the loss of your little bro, it's a deep impact, whilst it might not show physically, whats to matter about the body? The mind is an incredibly powerful thing... Through your dreams it's the last few hours of sleep, it's after you mind has recovered from the day and regained it's energy, obviously you lvoed your brother and you mourn for him. This isn't bad.
Death is always on ones mind after someone close or important "passes away".

Hearing voices, whilst uncommon, isn't a ticket to "crazy town", hearing and seeing things doesn't give you a "Go to Jail, Do not pass go, do not collect $200" ticket.
The voices are just your mind, I personally think about several things at once, each train of though in a different voice/tone, I could pass it off as 'hearing voices' but it's what you make of it.

The loss of your brother, or any close, immediate family member, is incredibly scaring, it affects the mind deeply, I am sorry for your loss, I hope that you are coping, doesn't have to be incredibly well, but coping none-the-less.
Your not insane, or crazy, your just groing through a mourning stage, a process which proves that you loved your little-bro.

VT's here for you if you ever need to talk. Feel free to PM me if you want.

Asylum
March 15th, 2010, 08:25 AM
your nto crazy hun... it's emotions and feelings that are causing your dreams.. i'm very sorry about your brother... try seeing a counslr or someone to tlka to or you can always PM me. try listening to peaceful msuic and reading before bed see if that helps

JDB_95
March 17th, 2010, 12:20 PM
Soz bout your bro, i lost my grandad when i was just a quite youn bout 11 i got nightmares and sometimes just started crying randomly espicially if i heard a song tht reminde me of him but i got over it after 6 ish months. i then lost my other grandad when i was 13 it wasn't quite as bad as he was my step grandad and i'd only known him a bout 3 years i only cried at the funeral but felt depressed for bout a month after. i never heard voices but everyone copes differently.

it's just something that you will get over adventually but until you do it's hard. PM me if you wanna talk bout anything i might be able to help :)