ugh: part 2

[cody2010]

so i don't know how many of you read my last thread on this subject, but i told you guys i had a huge crush on a really good friend.

well tonight i was at a birthday party. (not his). we were all playing truth or dare and he was dared to kiss me. and he did. it was amazing. even though i know he hated it, and it didn't mean anything at all. i still loved it. i don't know what to do about this. he's such a cool guy, and i really don't want to feel this way for him, but i do and its not going away. the kiss has made it worse. i want him even more now. but he shows no signs of wanting to experiment, or anything.

i drove him home after the party and we talked the whole way. we didn't talk about anything important just a lot of different stuff. but i loved the conversation too. so i don't think its just a physical attraction. (although he is a cutie) but i think i'm very much emotionally attracted to him.

i really don't know what to do. someone please help!!!

[guacamole24]

That's a really tough situation. From what you said, I do doubt that he will want to get with you. I'm saying that you should not tell him, because that would definitely strain your friendship.

[Baudelaire]

well heres what I'd do!!

Just be like, really awkward around him, when he asks whats wrong just be like.

"I felt really weird about the other night, I mean it almost felt like you enjoyed it"

I mean he might actually like you, otherwise I don't think he wouldve went through with it.

[CarnivorousBat]

i would do what Baudelaire said. good idea

[KillerKing]

Ye, thats actually a really good idea from Baudelaire but be careful about how you say it. He may get offended so just you know be cautious.

[CuriousDestruction]

you could do like baudelaire or you may just wanna keep it to yourself dude. if you really don't wanna risk putting yourself out there you may just need to live with it. sorry mate.

[teenmanchester]

very difficult situation, but i agree with Baudelaire

[Huskyboy132]

You kind of have two choices here.

1) Keep it for yourself, never tell him. Lose Win situation.
or
2) Do what baudelaire said, which is a good idea, and see for his reaction. Of course then you have the chance that it will be over with your friendship but then you at least know what he is into and what not or he will be okay with it, maybe even wants to do more and knows that you are available for experimenting if you want to.

[curiousboy014]

I like what baudekaire said. However, I think it is kind of risky. Maybe you should try to play it off as a joke or something. Maybe say something on the lines of "So, I am pretty sure you enjoyed the kiss the other day." See how he reacts. If he completely is repulsed by the idea, then you can be like, "Dude, I am just playing ha ha." Then you would know how he feels. On the other hand, if he makes a joke back being like, "O you know it." Then keep on with it. Say something like "Really? Well maybe we should try it again." Then see how he acts. You can always pull the, "Dude, I was just playing." card lol.
Hope to have helped