Friend Acting Weird!

[mzakpitt]

Ok, my names Mike I'm 14 and my best friend who've I've known since like the first grade is acting really weird. I guess this began like in October, he really liked the girl i liked but the girl didn't like him she liked me, but i mean we talked about it and we were cool, and everything seemed cool, then like in November into December things went to hell! He just started not talking to me anymore, and he actually started making fun of me, i mean no one even cared cause im friends with everyone, but I didn't care what everyone else thought, I just cared why he was doing this and it got to the point where i just wanted to go home and cry(no homo). And this has been going on ever since, like he invites my other two friends over his house, but not me and he's been telling Julia, my girlfriend, that I've fucked like three other girls without a rubber, and i mean it just gets me so mad. It's like he stopped being my friend, so i just wanted to know if anyone else went through something like this, and if they did they could give me some advice. Cause all i want is my best friend back!:(

[Scarface]

i think that your "friend" may have a case of jealousy and i recommend that you lose him as a friend because if you get along with everyone else then you should hang out with some new people and give him his space. Let things cool down and try speaking to him again and hopefully then he will talk to you and explain why he did what he did

[Gumleaf]

i agree with the above. your friend is most likely jealous that you have the girl that he liked and wanted to be with. i would suggest you cut contact with him completely. it might feel like you are losing a friend, but as you have said you are friends with everyone. losing someone who obviously isn't your friend anymore, by how he talks about you, might not be nice, but in the long run it will be best for your relationship with your girlfriend and your reputation as a person too.

[Nelson]

Agreed with above

[KillerKing]

What they said is a good idea, maybe if you stop trying then HE will realise what he's done and try and fix it with you, if he doesn't, well there's better friends out there!

[mzakpitt]

thanks guys I'm gonna try this at school tomorrow.

[IanMilo]

I think its an opportunity to meet new people....if he ever wants to be tyour friend again he will come back to you but you should go meet new people

[playboy]

i would say try to talk it out with him and see how he really feels and you let him know how u feel

[jakob oliver]

u should just drop him

[Kitty Purry]

Ok first of all saying "no homo" is gonnna piss alot of poeple here off. Ok I just think thaw you so called "friend" is just jealeous. Most likely because of the girl taut you both liked and she choose you :p

[mzakpitt]

Ok first of all saying "no homo" is gonnna piss alot of poeple here off. Ok I just think thaw you so called "friend" is just jealeous. Most likely because of the girl taut you both liked and she choose you :p.......ya i kinda felt bad about tht afterwards...i really just meants to say im not gay or anything i mean i have nothing wrong with people who are gay, my cousin is gay and i love him. So if anyone who read this and is gay and got mad over it...im really really really sorry i didn't mean it in a making fun of way...People should be able to live their own life!

[mzakpitt]

well haha i know i haven't told ppl what happened...but i just ignored him and one day he came by my house and apologized, and were best buds again, and its like nothing ever happened. Thanks guys! it worked!

[Jess]

that's great! :)

[BlackBetty]

Don't listen to the comments they are saying about you fucking 3 other girls without rubbers. If it isn't true, then don't harp on it.

As for you're friend, he is simply jealous. If he was really you're friend, he would be glad that you have a girlfriend.

If it was me, I would end the friendship.