Confused.. need some advice.

[drifter]

I apologize if this gets rather long, but I have a lot on my mind... thanks.

So, last year, I met the first girl that I truly fell in love with. Everything was wonderful. Everything. We were so alike in so many ways.. we'd constantly complete each other's sentences .. everything. We were so happy and in love. A few months into it, things turned sexual. Shortly after that, her parents found out. Now, both of our parents are extremely conservative (the opposite of me) and were outraged. We weren't aloud to be "together" anymore, but we still saw each other. We were still so in love, but we hid it well. We would contact each other constantly behind their backs, and we got good at it... Until a few weeks ago when our parents checked the phone records and found out. They were beyond angry. We were never aloud to be in contact again. Honestly, it killed me. But, I never thought to doubt her.. I didn't think she would give up. Well, it seems as if she has. Shortly after we got caught, I'd sneak calls to her from a payphone. We'd tell each other how we weren't going to give up. And how we'd do it all over again if we had to. I felt so comforted knowing I had her, after all that we've been through. Well, a few weeks into calling from the payphone, she stopped answering my calls. I've left her voicemails asking her to pick up, but she won't. She literally has done this without any reason. I am beyond confused. The last thing she said was... "baby, I'd do this all over again if it meant knowing you. Don't worry about losing me." After that phone call, I heard nothing from her... and it SCARES me. I don't know what to do. Should I give up? This one person has been my WORLD for the last year and a half, and I feel lost without her. I'm so upset and I'd love any advice you could give me.

(FYI she is 16. I'm 17.)

If anyone read this from the top to bottom, thank you so much. It means a ton to me.
x

[khaos14]

The long posts are the ones that really deserve reading (: Do you think that maybe she just doesn't know how to contact you? Since your parents can check the records, she's probably not sure how she can talk to you. Your last conversation sounds like it ended on a good note, so I don't think anything's wrong, but I'm not sure. You're 17, so I'm assuming you have your license. What if you stopped by her house one day on your way someplace one day? But then again, you would have to figure out how to see her without her parents seeing you. Just a suggestion. I hope I was of help.

[Gumleaf]

there could be any number of reasons why this could be the case. i can understand how you are scared that you have lost her because i would be to in the same situation. but don't jump to conclusions yet. perhaps her parents took her phone to make sure you can't contact eachother? or maybe she is just waiting for things with her parents to cool off again before talking to you? of course, there is the possibility that she may have moved on, but if she said she still loved you and wanted to make it work etc to you the last time you had contact together i would say that it is less likely that she has. hope you are able to find some answers dude.

[IanMilo]

hmmm wait it out... she seems to care like they said she may be worried about contacting you

[KillerKing]

Omg, If you two were willing to ge behind your parents backs just to stay in contact then i wouldn't give up. But what you do need, both of you, is patience. Get on with your lives for a bit just until you can find a way to stay in contact or be together.

[Lemonlover934]

i agree with the other posts, i dont think she has left you or moved on, if her parents are that strict they might of taken her phone off her or something, just wait it out, and i know that can't be easy, but just stay positive, things will look up xx

[drifter]

Wow.. I didn't expect so much good advice from you all. Unfortunately, I know for a fact (through someone else) that she has her phone with her. She just won't answer me. SO, I'm going to stop calling for a while.. and not move on in my heart. I think that's the right thing to do... (?) Thank you all.. a ton. :)

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