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Evermore
March 12th, 2010, 10:30 PM
I did everything. I did all the chores. I took every insult. I kept my mouth shut when she screamed at me. I took care of the baby. I never complained. But now she all of a sudden "can't take it anymore". She gets in one little fight with my brother, Kodi(not the baby, the other one) and all of a sudden she can't take us anymore. Kodi's going to his dad. Parker's going to his dad. I'm going to my grandmother. In Winnemucca, Nevada.

My baby brother, I won't get to see him. I won't get to comfort him next time he's teething. I don't even know my grandparents I've talked to them like twice. Never seen them before. I'm going to leave all my friends. I never felt extremely close to any of them anyway but the baby. I will be three states away.

I might not get to see him until I'm an adult and can visit him myself. I hate my mom. I did everything I could but it just wasn't enough for her. Now, I have to live in Nevada. I feel like she just stripped away everything I can look forward to. I have a suitcase packed. My spring break is going to be spent transferring schools.
Fvantom
March 12th, 2010, 10:41 PM
I feel your pain, and right now it may seem like you've lost everything, but you're still young, just keep going and try to start a new life in nevada, Im online alot so send a PM if you need to talk
Katrina
March 12th, 2010, 10:50 PM
I am so sorry for you.
The only thing that I can say is that try talking to your mother calmly. If possible try talking to your Dad and ask him to talk to your Mom. If nothing works you should just think that everything is for good. Usually grandparents are known to be very caring. Still you can arrange to meet your brother somehow every few months.
Evermore
March 12th, 2010, 11:03 PM
I am so sorry for you.
The only thing that I can say is that try talking to your mother calmly. If possible try talking to your Dad and ask him to talk to your Mom. If nothing works you should just think that everything is for good. Usually grandparents are known to be very caring. Still you can arrange to meet your brother somehow every few months.

I don't have a dad that's why I'm going to my grandparents. I never met him.
Scarface
March 13th, 2010, 09:08 AM
I am very sorry that this shit is happening to you. Tearing your family apart is going to suck and i know all feels hopeless right now, but when life throws these kinds of curve balls you have to handle it. I have a split up family myself and it hasn't been easy for me, but if you need someone to talk to about this im here and hopefully i can help
Evermore
March 13th, 2010, 07:50 PM
My plane ticket says april 1st.....
Nelson
March 14th, 2010, 03:37 AM
Lance, that really sucks.

I really dont have much experience in this because im an only child, but just think positivly (i know its hard to do, but you have to try)

If you ever need someone to talk to, im on VT 93% of the time so just PM me :)

Dylan