Am I playing the field?

[staying_alive]

Alright guys (and girls).

I've got a problem with relationships. Commitment scares me and every girl I get interested in only turns into a thing if they get interested back and I can be sure of it. I flirt a lot, and i never thought that was a problem...until people started to notice.

People have made comments about how much I flirt and such, and I don't intend to cause harm to girls over it. I just don't see the possessiveness that girls just LOVE to have over guys, even ones that have no commitment to them. Am i not allowed to flirt with whoever I want, as much as I want?

Opinions from both sexes would be helpful

[Shimalt94]

It is true... some girls like to be possesive over guys thatare not even dating. Thats just how girls are and I am a girl. I would say to flirt with a few girls is good but just try not to flirt with every girl, otherwise you might get overly possesive girls watching you every move.... don't stress or anything just don't over do it? Also the fact that commitment scares you shouldn't worry you now that you are young.... When you get older that could change. Hope I helped.

P.S. It doesn't sound like you are playing the field if you are just flirting alot. Thats just my opinion.

[anthonysayhi]

Im a Guy and i Flirt With Not alot Of girls only ones that seem good and they flirt back

[staying_alive]

Thanks for the replies guys.

Shimalt, I really appreciate you acknowledging girls' possessiveness. It's nice to know someone of the opposite sex agrees with me!

anthony, I don't understand what you're saying. You only flirt with girls who are good at it? haha that's generally how it works naturally. when a girl isn't good at flirting, nothing happens!