What to do next?

[cooldude123]

Well, after a long story, i got rejected, but a friends told me this; 'If you never try, you will never know', and this really helped me get over it.

Well, it has been some time now, and i have my eyes on another girl. Her, and a few other girls are all my friends. (Most of my friends are girls) Anyway, i have left it too long, and i need to get about telling her. However, i am too nervous to walk up to her and tell her, and don't tell me otherwise, so that isn't an option. I need a way that would work, but not spoil our friendship, as that would ruin my friendship with the others.

So, my question is, how do i get about asking her? I can't do it directly, but i don't want to ruin our friendship either.

Oh, and because i am serious about this person, i also rejected a nice girl for her, as i love her that much. I can't decide who i fall in love with...

Thanks.

[Paladino]

I think you should just talk to her if you ever end up just you two or on MSN.

[Scarface]

you could get another girl that isn't part of the circle to tell her that you like her if you feel you cannot go directly to her. Or as said above chatting with her on IM is another way. i really hope you get her man good luck to you and i hope this helps. OM me anytime if you need to talk.

[Kaius]

Talking to her would be a good place to start, silly as it sounds. Sit down with her, think about it are there any times you'll be with her, just you two? You could take that approach, and then when you get confident enough ask her if she wants to go see a movie. If you don't want to ask her that directly, give her your number/get hers and text her. Trying can't hurt. Hope it goes well for you

[Art_dude]

Well, after a long story, i got rejected, but a friends told me this; 'If you never try, you will never know', and this really helped me get over it.

Well, it has been some time now, and i have my eyes on another girl. Her, and a few other girls are all my friends. (Most of my friends are girls) Anyway, i have left it too long, and i need to get about telling her. However, i am too nervous to walk up to her and tell her, and don't tell me otherwise, so that isn't an option. I need a way that would work, but not spoil our friendship, as that would ruin my friendship with the others.

So, my question is, how do i get about asking her? I can't do it directly, but i don't want to ruin our friendship either.

Oh, and because i am serious about this person, i also rejected a nice girl for her, as i love her that much. I can't decide who i fall in love with...

Thanks.

I think you need to listen to yourself, you're asking for a lot: when you ask out a friend you always run the risk of potentially ruining a friendship. This isn't your typical case where it's a friend and if it doesn't work out it can be mutual - like you said, this could affect how you interact with your other friends. Is it really worth it? But if you honestly want to take that risk then I think you should follow the prescription laid out by some of the suggestions here. sit her down and tell her how you feel - there's no 'step by step' way to do this, it's different for everybody. Speak genuinely and see how she responds.

[IanMilo]

I advise you talk as often as you can without coming on as stalker, slowly start talking about relationships and just get her to trust you.
Please remember,usually once you get in the friendship stage you are stuck,with a rare exception.
But just try to talk and let her know you care,ACTUALLY LISTEN,and do random sweet things.

good luck :)