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donniedarko
March 11th, 2010, 07:10 PM
After I Finnish masturbating, I always feel guilty... Like what I just did was a really bad thing ... Does anyone feel the same way or have anything that can change my mind?
Thanks

Jmann
March 11th, 2010, 07:13 PM
when i was younger i did but now i freakin love it!!!

Disconected
March 11th, 2010, 07:26 PM
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SomeRandomDude
March 11th, 2010, 07:38 PM
I did at first, but now I don't. Just remember that theres nothing to be guilty about!

Mythical
March 11th, 2010, 08:08 PM
you may feel guilty at first. dont worry! everyone (or most) do the same thing!

fallen xxi
March 11th, 2010, 09:26 PM
Eh, it isn't the goods outweigh the bads. No big deal it's just a weird psychological problem that a lot of people posses for some reason.

swimmatic
March 11th, 2010, 09:33 PM
I used to when I was younger. But not anymore!

alex95
March 11th, 2010, 09:39 PM
Never felt guilty never will.

IAMWILL
March 11th, 2010, 10:34 PM
Ya, i would always feel guilty after masturbating the first few times i did it, but now I feel fine after. The feeling will wear off with time.

LoginLeo
March 12th, 2010, 05:28 AM
I felt the same, but u really don't need to feel guilty. U have to understand that u r doin a good thing !
First of all - it's healthy !
Second - Great Feeling ! Do u have to feel guilty when u have a great feeling ?
Third - Masturbating prevents some kind of cancer, so it really is GREAT !

Why to feel guilty then ? Don't :P

karl
March 12th, 2010, 09:39 AM
When I was living in England our family doctor, an old guy, told me it was bad for me, being young and all. It made me feel terrible, really guilty. But now I have a new doctor here in Spain, and I asked him and he told me not to worry, that it was perfectly ok. It took me a while, but now no feelings of guilt, just enjoyment.

Cosmic
March 12th, 2010, 09:43 AM
It's perfectly normal to feel guilty after masturbation. Most of us are brought up in a society that tells you to hide your body and taboos sexuality, so naturally when you start discovering sexuality and involving yourself in it, you feel guilty because you feel like you're going against what you were told before - sexuality is bad, or for grown ups, or "naughty".

The feeling, as identified by the lovely members above me, will subside with time and you grow more used to sexuality and embrace it for what it is; a natural, fun and normal thing.

Scarface
March 12th, 2010, 10:27 AM
those feelings will go away as you get older no worries. I feel better then ever now

QuickQuart
March 12th, 2010, 11:03 AM
after you finish masturbating, a hormone goes through your body that makes you feel tired; a lot of the times, it also makes you feel sad or guilty. It's just something that most people overcome with time. accepting and understanding that masturbation is totally normal and healthy helps too.

CuriousDestruction
March 12th, 2010, 07:14 PM
it's kind of an in-grained fear and guilt for sexual action. it's not your fault. and you shouldn't feel guilty. it comes from the victorian age and puritanical stupidity. just try to remember that it's natural and not to feel guilty.