Just a question.

[DarkWingedAngel]

Ok so well I have a boyfriend, It is a really big long distance thing, and well I was wondering something.
Is it wrong to cyber with him, I mean me and him both enjoy it, and were both ok with doing it, is it ok to do that?

[tnn_94]

if you guys are both comfortable with it, then i dont see whats so wrong.

[dmeek7]

there are so many factors that might decide if its wrong or right....most importantly.....have you two SEEN or MET each other in person?......2nd of all...how are you doing it?...is it chat, where you can clear history?..or is it e-mail?

[DarkWingedAngel]

We have not seen each other in person... yet, we have plans.
Usually yahoo or msn

[Art_dude]

Hmmm this is tricky. I have two stances on this.

Although, I'm sure you have strong feelings for him, (and I'm not doubting he feels the same way), you technically have never met him and I don't know whether you can really trust him. I'm not saying it will happen, but who knows what he might plan to do, if things don't work out between you two? Once a picture is on the internet, it's there forever.

However, my other stance is that you're both teenagers in a relationship and any part of a healthy relationship is physical intimacy (especially with teens lol) So to me, seeing as the long distance thing is difficult, it would make sense that you cam. The only thing preventing me from giving my blessing, is that you've never met him. That really changes the situation entirely: Who is this guy, can you trust him, will you show your face etc, etc, etc,.

However, I think your question is not whether you should or shouldn't do it, but whether it's 'o.k.' I don't think you can find an answer to a very personal ethical question from any of us - you have to ask that to yourself. I hope that useful.

[Sapphire]

From my perspective, there isn't anything morally wrong with two people in a relationship doing it as long as they are both comfortable with it.

Problems can arise from engaging in this type of activity but if you both keep the lines of communication open and use them then you should be able to overcome any bumps in the road.

[Katrina]

I completely agree with Sapphire.
Furthermore if you keep your head still and if you think you are not overdoing it, everything will be fine.
Best of luck.

[AllThatIsLeft]

The real answer to this question should only come from you in the end, what do you think?
Do you feel it's wrong ? Do you feel it's right? As long as you are happy with yourself, what the rest of us think shouldn't matter. =]

Now advice wise, think, is it safe? How long have you known this person, can you trust him? Do you really want to expose that much to a somewhat stranger, knowing there could be consequences in the end?

I think you'll find your answer if you think about that.

[DarkWingedAngel]

Well frankly I don't think he could do anything I go on cam all the time, and it's not like he can see me doing anything, except for the faces I make.

[AllThatIsLeft]

Than hun, I don't see anything wrong with it. =]

[DarkWingedAngel]

Thats all I really wanted to know thanks.
Now for my benefit can you delete this

[AllThatIsLeft]

I can lock it. Not Delete it.
:locked:

[DarkWingedAngel]

ok that works