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Botchy
March 10th, 2010, 01:10 PM
First off im not to populer at school i have Aspergers witch makes it hard to keep frineds im not to bright either. so this afternoon in school one of my best mates comes up to me and has a masive go at me.

Because i cant wright or spel very good witch makes me a "loser" and because i spend to much time on xbox never get out your house and apart from me and x and x have no frindes.

Then it gets worse he diggs in hard saying im a f****ed up retard who is a "spastic retard Diseases infested loser". So he is now just throwing abuse at me and i did not no how to come back.

i could go on and on about the convo but ther is no point, i thort he understood me and who i was i was wong.
I have worked hard to make frinds after moving back to a mainstreem school and was making some and now i am back to the start.

I was just starting to fit in and gain some Conferdence now it has gone. only today i gave him my old phone and now he dose this. The fact he is very populer meens due to peer prusser 2 of my other mates dont want to talk to me, im left with just one.

i am sad and dont no what to do now because he will go and say to everyone i am a retared loser even tho meny allready know. tbh as sad as it sounds football and xbox keep me gowing its going to be a long few years.
Sorry if this is was the wong place to post this mabey it should be in mental crisis because i cant work out why i am hear on earth

Apparitions
March 10th, 2010, 02:19 PM
First off im not to populer at school i have Aspergers witch makes it hard to keep frineds im not to bright either. so this afternoon in school one of my best mates comes up to me and has a masive go at me.

Because i cant wright or spel very good witch makes me a "loser" and because i spend to much time on xbox never get out your house and apart from me and x and x have no frindes.

Then it gets worse he diggs in hard saying im a f****ed up retard who is a "spastic retard Diseases infested loser". So he is now just throwing abuse at me and i did not no how to come back.

i could go on and on about the convo but ther is no point, i thort he understood me and who i was i was wong.
I have worked hard to make frinds after moving back to a mainstreem school and was making some and now i am back to the start.

I was just starting to fit in and gain some Conferdence now it has gone. only today i gave him my old phone and now he dose this. The fact he is very populer meens due to peer prusser 2 of my other mates dont want to talk to me, im left with just one.

i am sad and dont no what to do now because he will go and say to everyone i am a retared loser even tho meny allready know. tbh as sad as it sounds football and xbox keep me gowing its going to be a long few years.
Sorry if this is was the wong place to post this mabey it should be in mental crisis because i cant work out why i am hear on earth
Don't feel like that. These people are ignorant and do not understand what it is like to have something like Aspergers. I would try and ignore them if you can. Keep on trying to make new friends, not everyone is like the guy who called you those names. I would also suggest trying to find some kind of youth centre or something where you can meet new people. Have you tried meeting other people with Aspergers that know what it is like? Anyway don't believe what he says, he is the loser. I hope this helps :)

Nelson
March 11th, 2010, 11:56 AM
Dont feel like that, as you said "hes popular", which means his other friends could be telling him to ditch you (which is a really mean thing to do)

To me, it doesnt matter if a friend has Aspergers, Downs, CP, Anything, its who they are on the inside that matters, not their physical or mental issues, If someone has a good personality, they are a good person

I have a friend whos autistic, a few friend whos bipolar, a friend with CP, a bunch of ADHD friends and one of my close mates little sisters is Aspergers, Really wouldnt give a shit if they are missing half a leg and an arm, They are still good people, and your friend should see that in you, if he doesnt, hes not really a friend.

You probably are a really nice kid, dont let people get to you :)

Brighter.Tomorrow
March 13th, 2010, 09:38 AM
Eh, that's something we all have to go through on some level, when you trust in someone you risk getting hurt. Try your best meeting othersin your school see if there is anyone else you get along with. =]

Scarface
March 13th, 2010, 09:56 AM
Obviously these other popular kids are not your friends. It may mean that you could do some soul searching and find new and better friends because those other ones are putting you down. Finding new friends will build self esteem, if you need someone to talk to im always here.