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rae7
March 9th, 2010, 01:11 AM
so i dated GIRL A, in 08'
in 09' we broke up.

during feb of 10' i dated one of GIRL A's best friends GIRL B.
GIRL A broke up with me 2 weeks in to the relationship.
but right after we broke up, GIRL A started talking about our old relationship, and how things went wrong, and how we felt after we broke up.

my friends all think GIRL A is trying to get back w/ me cause she's been hinting and leading me on. Tbh, i have a thing for her too.

But one of my female friends who's close to GIRL A and GIRL B told me not to try to get back with GIRL A because that would hurt GIRL B.

what should i do? ) :

Katrina
March 9th, 2010, 05:34 AM
By Girl A's reaction it is looking that she is trying to be with you again. But now the decision is yours. Personally I would like you to continue your relationship with Girl B.

Kaius
March 9th, 2010, 10:15 AM
Well from what you're telling us, Girl A is not really going to give you a reliable relationship, given how many times you've both broken up. Chances are its just going to happen again. Girl B, you haven't said much about, but it seems to me you'd be better off in a relationship with her because it seems more stable.

rae7
March 9th, 2010, 06:32 PM
i have mixed feelings for GIRL B, but when we broke up, i felt more relieved than i felt bad about it.

the reason GIRL B and i broke up was because we never communicated well.
before we got together, we used to talk a lot, but it wasnt really deep, it was all about things we were mutally interested in.

Mr. Smithers
March 9th, 2010, 06:56 PM
Then you are probably better off without either one then. If you say you had bad experiences with both of them.

Kaius
March 9th, 2010, 07:08 PM
I agree with August to be honest. If you've had bad experiences with both of them (I didn't know this first time around) you'd be better off just staying friends. This way nobody gets hurt, and you can have a chance at finding someone else.

rae7
March 10th, 2010, 01:00 AM
okay, that sounds cool.
thanks for the advice!

Scarface
March 10th, 2010, 03:53 AM
stay neutral and just be friends with them because having a relationship with either one will cause very trivial things will transpire leading to you all not being friends, if that makes sense. there are plenty of fish in the sea, (sounds cliche) but is it really worth losing friends over to choose one or the other? PM me if you need to talk. hope this helps