One Nite Stander

[TrevFredMotors]

This may sound weird, but I have never ACTUaLLY had a girlfriend. I have, unfortunately had many one night stands though. It seems like if Im at a party and a little less "judgmental" (wink wink), I can get with plenty of girls, BUT I'M SICK AND TIRED OF IT! I really wanna just be myself and have a long term relationship. How should I go about it?!

ANYTHING HELPS!

Thanks alot, and I kno its kind of disgusting, but its how my life has turned out and O cant change it.

[Baudelaire]

well, first of all, at parties, dont just suggest to have sex, be like, "can I get your number?" and see where it goes from there. good luck

[TrevFredMotors]

U see, thats the thing. When Im at a party, Im a little inebriated unfortunately, and I really dont understand whats going on. The one time I tried not to drink, it still happened. People ask me, not vice versa.

[Pudd]

Refuse them and say that you want to know them better first.

[tnn_94]

maybe you are getting with the wrong types of girls. instead of looking for girls at a party, go find one somewhere else.

[staying_alive]

Oh god I have a similar situation. Are you really sure you want to start a relationship? There's a large emotional toll in it and unfortunately (for me at least) there's a lot less partying when you've got a girlfriend...

I agree with the above post about getting the girl's number. Unfortunately, a girl at a party doesn't always want that if she's drunk. I don't know how old you are, but if you're in high school there's plenty of times in class etc. to get to know girls. You just have to talk to them, and they'll talk back. Once you get the ball rolling it gets going surprisingly fast.

The thing you need to be sure of is if you want the emotional commitment. It's very rewarding but can also be very damaging.

By the way, I'm pretty sure you can say "drunk" on here...you don't have to beat around the bush about it.