Friend won't tell me

[here2help]

Now sure if this is the write place to post this but, I have a friend that I've known for over a year now were pritty close and generally tell each other little secrets. I only see her once a week at cadets these days seeing she had a boyfriend, which I was actually kinda jelous about but there not going out anymore. Well the past 3 weeks she hasn't seemed herself, the first two weeks of her sadness incommented on her not being herself and she told me she's fine and not to worry about it. Well last week I asked her what's wron and she didn't say anything and changed the subject, then I said you didn't answer my question an she said myabe it's because I chose not too. Well I'm now expecting you to know what's wrong with her but is there any ways of her telling me what's wrong. I really care about her and for the first week I'd her sadness I thought she had broken up with her boyfriend but i don't think girls get upset for more than 3 weeks after a breakup and espicially cause they only went out for a couple of weeks.

[Mr. Smithers]

Maybe she is upset about something else. Why don't you talk to her more. You should tell her that, "Friends don't keep secrets from each other, and if there is something wrong, I'm your friend and you should tell me."

She might be upset about her breakup with the person she was with. That could be a possibility. But I would talk to her, even if she says there is nothing wrong.

[Mattasaur94]

... You should tell her that, "Friends don't keep secrets from each other, and if there is something wrong, I'm your friend and you should tell me." ...

That's pretty much blackmail... Sorry, but, that's how I percieve that.

Honestly, In my opinion, you don't NEED to know whats wrong, if your just there for her, if you can be someone she can trust and hold onto and cry to, then, don't try and force her into telling you.
When she's ready she will tell you, it's as simple as that.
It's not because she doesn't trust you, or because she hates you, but because she's just not ready to talk about it.
It could very well be the relationship issue, things might have happened, they could be serious, but I don't want to scare you so I'll shut up about that.

Just be a should she can cry on and be there for her, don't try and make her tell you, she will in her own time, untill then, try and be what makes her day happy, try and be positive around her and not remind her of what ever went wrong. (:

[BuryYourFlame]

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[karl]

Be there to listen when she's ready to talk.