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StJude217
March 7th, 2010, 10:06 PM
Ok, I know I have posted on this subject twice already, but the situation keeps changing dramatically. Ok, there is this girl, and I love her more than anyone will ever know, she means more to me than anything. Anyway, she is singke now, and her birthday just recently came through, and I got her a necklace and some earrings. She said it was really really sweet, and she always says stuff to me like she likes me; stuff she says that she wouldnt ask or talk about with anyone else...anyway what can i do to get her to say yes to me...what can I say...something. Please help I love her to much for it not to work.

Thanks, Beanie Bones

Rutherford The Brave
March 7th, 2010, 10:27 PM
Dress nice, brush your teeth and hair, put a smile on and ask her out already! Be yourself too, no facades please.

Mr. Smithers
March 7th, 2010, 10:48 PM
It seems this person likes you. So I don't see her not wanting to have a relationship with you. Even if she does reject you, it's nothing to be upset about. She just wasn't the one. But I know that she would be open to starting something with you.

jess_13
March 7th, 2010, 11:10 PM
just be yourself and tell her that you like her and say something nice to her cuz all girls like to hear a nice thing and i am sure that she will be nice to you good luck!

pageplant77
March 7th, 2010, 11:20 PM
Well that sucks that you say the situation keeps changing.

I I were you I'd just go for it. Ask her out! It sounds like she likes you, she's just waiting for you to make the next move.
Take her to a movie, go walking with her, or just go somewhere where you two can be alone. Tell her how you feel about her, and that you like her a lot and just see what she says.

Asking a girl out always makes me really nervous, but you just have to man up and do it.

Clayburn Chic
March 8th, 2010, 05:39 PM
tell her you like her then if she agrees wait a few days before you ask her out, buying her things wont make her want to be in a relationship with you. just be yourself

rae7
March 9th, 2010, 06:47 PM
go for it!
she's leading you on for sure.

dont be afraid to tell her how you feel. :]

goodluck with everything! hope it goes well!

StJude217
March 10th, 2010, 04:54 PM
Ok, she already knows I like her, and her best friend told me she had feelings for me too...and I let her know that I still like her pretty reguarly, and I always compliment her, and she's real touch-feely on the subject. One time she said something about if we dated she would worry that we couldn't be best friends anymore, but I did my best to assure her that we could...anyway if any of that incoheirent rambling helped let me know what you think.

nickw_2013
March 10th, 2010, 05:01 PM
Just be yourself. It seems like you two already get along pretty well. Don't change the way you act, be serious and ask her out.
Good luck

Lemonlover934
March 10th, 2010, 05:54 PM
Ask her out, sounds like she really likes you to. Best of luck xx