Does he want to compare?

[Lukemathews94]

There is this guy at my church and we are both he same age. We are not best friends or anything. I barely see him outside of church and school activities. I don't think he is gay but a few times he has made little comments towards gay things. Also he will jokingly act like he's tryin to rub up on me. It's not all the time but it's happened for a while and is only an occasional occurance. I wouldn't mind doing stuff like comparing and j/o but is that what he wants.

[pageplant77]

He could, but I wouldn't make any split decisions, If he keeps doing this, just ask him what he's trying to do, This isn't for any of us on VT to decide.

[Mr. Smithers]

The only way to find out is to ask him. Why don't you tell him what's on your mind. That way if you have feelings or don't have feelings for this person, at least he would know.

[Mysterious Skin]

It sounds like he wants to but is unsure if you will snap at him if you ask so if you want to ask him yourself

[Gumleaf]

moving: boys puberty >>> relationships & dating

[tnn_94]

plenty of guys do this sometime b/c they are just kidding around. you would have to ask him to make sure of his intentions. try not to assume things and get yourself in a situation you never meant to be caught in.

[turtle7]

yea my friends do this to me i think they just want attention. but u have to decide for ur own situation