View Full Version : Im tired of it, I need someone
fohawk
March 7th, 2010, 07:58 PM
I just cant stand it anymore when i see my friends with girlfriends or one of my really good friends who is a girl talf about her boyfriend and stuff, and it hurts to hear it because i have never gone out with a girl or even kissed one and i am fifteen years old, all i want is one chance to show a girl that i am funny and nice and extremly caring, if any one has any tips or advice anything is apprieciated
Joshrofl
March 7th, 2010, 08:05 PM
You and me are about the same, I want a girlfriend too but this is what i do and it gets me friends. I may not be the perfect person to ask but here's a bit of advice.
Talk to girls more, Try to make it unnoticeable, but go out of your way to talk to girls. Try to talk to them in classes, eventually you will find one that you really enjoy spending time with... after that just try to talk or flirt with them.
Jess
March 7th, 2010, 08:10 PM
I know how you feel I cannot find a boyfriend
Art_dude
March 7th, 2010, 08:17 PM
I'm sorry bud :/ I know where you're coming from. The best thing you can do in those situations is either shut off your ears or leave the room. As for the frustration of not being given a chance... there's no other solution other than continue to be outgoing and hope for deserved recognition. Is there anything about yourself you might think is turning people off? If you can identify that problem you can always work on it etc. Being outgoing is key, but confidence is integral! There's nothing that turns off most women more than a guy with his tail tucked between his legs (Some women go for the 'shyness' thing, but don't rely on that. Confidence is a huge sign of maturity and women will definitely pick up on that.)
Mr. Smithers
March 7th, 2010, 08:47 PM
You have your whole life ahead of you. You are so young, and you should enjoy being single. There is no rush for you to find someone. You will find a girlfriend. Don't get yourself worked up over something like this.
Carfreakjack
March 7th, 2010, 10:57 PM
I am the same way. I haven't had I gf since the summer going into 8th grade. And I see all these ass whole guys getting with girl n shit and I'm like the nicest guy in the wourld comparied to them. Well being the nice guy has finally payed off. I am asking out this girl tom. Who is one of the hottest girls in r grade. (That's not the only reason) and she's so smart and nice. If ur the nice guy it will evently pay off in the long run.
I also have a friend who is just like u. Has ne'er had a gf never kissed anyone and were both freshmen btw he's 14 I'm 15 but anyway he's always nice funny etc and he had a chance to get with a decent girl but not really the one ud go out with but he didnbjust bc of this other girl he sorta liked and sorta had a thing. So he could have bit didn't. If ur paitente thing will work out
Also when u think u like a girl start talking to have some good convos with her and see what happens.
Good luck
tnn_94
March 9th, 2010, 10:24 PM
im somewhat in the same situation as you. i talk to lots of girls and stuff, but never once had a girlfriend. maybe b/c im bi, or maybe not. but i agree with Discotheque though, youve got your whole life to find a girl, theres no need to rush into it. sooner or later, the girl youve been wanting will come along.
Lemonlover934
March 10th, 2010, 03:00 PM
i get what you mean with the pressure of being in a relationship at this age, but it will happen at some point. as for tip, confidence is good, and just generally being yourself (although a cliche) is what will work in the end. Just stay happy xx
DaretoFallup
March 10th, 2010, 03:26 PM
Alright, you're young, love comes slowly, and when you least expect it. Don't settle. Wait for it, take your time and start talking to girls. Figure out who you like to hang out with, and just keep hanging with them, see if there is anything there, if not, friendships are always great. Love, is sneaky, you have to be patient.
DayBreakArt
March 10th, 2010, 04:20 PM
Sweetie, you're 15. You have your life ahead of you to find love and tbh, high school love isn't very real. Don't worry. Make sure you're confident and put yourself out there. Love yourself, embrace yourself and soon enough, someone else will too. It'll happen. (:
kiki776
March 19th, 2010, 02:02 AM
awwwwwwwwww its ok i havent had a bf since 5th grade now im in 7th
Evermore
March 20th, 2010, 04:57 AM
It's perfectly normal to feel that way read my sig.
MyNameIsJack
March 21st, 2010, 03:46 PM
I know how ya feel, last year I wanted a girlfriend so baaad, and I ended in a relationship with my bestfriend 0.0
Never thought that would happen, but I'm very happy with her.
Try to talk with girls, first find a good friend(girl) try not to think about having a relationship with her. take my advice.
Jackel
March 23rd, 2010, 05:17 AM
DUDE! I feel the same, (Soz, that came out too fast...it just feels weird having someone else going through dis).
Yeah...I mean, look at my friends: (Well...my friend and other people in school), they have ALL got a partner! Even that rascist kid who screams and calls everyone rascist, is dating, (funny thing is; he hates rangas, and she's a ranga! He's all 'I hate rangas' now he's 'rangas are cool! LOL!'), but seriously, even the fat mean guy is going out! I feel so lonely!
I just want someone to love; I'm a great kisser, (so I believe), im kind, compassionate, even dependable! What happens to me? Get treated like sh*t! Sure...sometimes I get shy, or a bit pervy...but it's natural in a guy like me!
What im stressing is I need love in my life: why can't life throw a girl at me? (literally: a girl falling on me and me saving her from falling without noticing is a good intro if you ask me *blush*)
But yeah, I here you Fohawk.
Jack
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