Not Sure What To Do

[Lemonlover934]

I have been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months at this point and has only really shown indifference to our relationship, and i am starting to get feelings for my really close guy mate. My boyfriend now decides to care because he can see me and this friend are getting closer. I don't know what to do, do i go after the friend who i have feelings for or just enjoy the sudden caring by my boyfriend?
Advice please x

[Obscene Eyedeas]

You need to ask yourself a few questions. do you like your friend just because you have felt lonely or neglected by your current boyfriend. or do you really care about him. also how much do you care about your current boyfriend? is ht him you love or the attention he gives you? does your friend like you back? does he give you the attention you need out of a relationship. Are you willing to dump your current boyfriend? and who do you care about more?

noone here can answer these questions for you only yourself. so i hope this advice helps x

[Lemonlover934]

Thank you for the advice
Honestly i don't love my boyfriend, i like him alot and enjoy his company but i don't love him. I think if i was brutally honest with myself i care more about my friend, he is the one i would rather have in my life if i had to pick one. I really don't want to hurt my boyfriend, but i feel like i am staying with him thinking what if my friend liked me in that way. x

[Clayburn Chic]

if youre current boy friend is jealous about you and your guy friend, he shouldnt be. if he truly loves you, he shouldnt be worried. i think you should go for the guy that you have feelings for

[zacset]

Your current boyfriend may have realised that he was losing you when you started to become close with your other friend. It might've just taken one thing for him to value you highly enough to start caring for you more.

Obviously, I cannot be sure but I wouldn't discount the possibiliity of this instead of simply choosing to go with the other guy. Please though, if you decide to go with the other guy, be honest when you tell your current boyfriend. At least let him know where he went wrong, then maybe this way you will remain on good terms and give it another shot in the future.