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[cody2010]

so i think i may have a huge crush on a friend. he's 15 im 17. i really don't want to have these feelings for him. he's straight. i'm bi btw. he's slept over at my house before and slept in the same bed and i think i liked it a little more than i should. whenever i'm around him i'm so happy, like really really happy. but the second he goes home and we're separated i get this feeling. its a really bad feeling. i can't even explain it, but i can't stand it. there is no way we could ever be together because he's straight. and he doesn't know i like guys and girls. i wish i didn't feel this way. but i can't help it. is this just a crush? or am i just a freak?

[Baudelaire]

cody, your not a freak, its perfectly normal, however, if you know, like for sure hes 100% straight then you shouldnt try to make him uncomfortable. although he dosent sound completely straight if he would sleep in the same bed, OR he just isnt homophobic, anyway, you shouldnt try to get him to like you that way if you know he isnt in to boys. have you asked him about his sexuality?

[Mr. Smithers]

You have to accept his sexuality, and hope in return he accepts yours.

It's ok to have a crush, but you have to realize that you can't have him.

[Ender]

so i think i may have a huge crush on a friend. he's 15 im 17. i really don't want to have these feelings for him. he's straight. i'm bi btw. he's slept over at my house before and slept in the same bed and i think i liked it a little more than i should. whenever i'm around him i'm so happy, like really really happy. but the second he goes home and we're separated i get this feeling. its a really bad feeling. i can't even explain it, but i can't stand it. there is no way we could ever be together because he's straight. and he doesn't know i like guys and girls. i wish i didn't feel this way. but i can't help it. is this just a crush? or am i just a freak?

I know exactly how you feel! I used to have a crus on (at the time) my thirteen year old best friend, I was (and still am) 15. He swore by being straight. Finally I broke down and told him how i felt about him, and he was actually pretty cool with it. He even offered to experiment as friends because he "wants me to be happy". He was such a good friend.

So no, you are definately not a freak. I hope you figure things out.

-Trae

[CuriousDestruction]

you aren't a freak. not at all. and you sound like you do have a major crush on your friend. i know he's straight, and if you don't think he's at all curious, you may just want to stay friends for now. better friends with secret crushes, than crushes who are no longer friendly.

[cody2010]

thanks guys! your replies have help a lot.

[Skeletal-Chic]

Does he know you're Bi? I would suggest coming out to him to relieve some of the tension. You never know what could happen after that. He may have wanted to tell you the same thing. You never know 'till you try it out :)

[manlymadness]

Beleiving me no i fell for my best friend and im still not over him soo one thing is going to take sum tym f you reali luv him i mean ive been inlov with this guy since grade6 and im in grade 9 now!!!! And he might be curious dont give up hope yet people tend to suprise you even your best friend!!!!!

[Centrist]

Beleiving me no i fell for my best friend and im still not over him soo one thing is going to take sum tym f you reali luv him i mean ive been inlov with this guy since grade6 and im in grade 9 now!!!! And he might be curious dont give up hope yet people tend to suprise you even your best friend!!!!!


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