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chase.
March 6th, 2010, 12:12 AM
This is a complicated situation (for me at least) so please bear with me on the details.

I've known this girl since 7th grade (I am in 9th now) and I am completely infatuated with her. I really think I love her. The problem is that she doesn't feel the same way.

All of her friends are my friends, and we like to hang out together. Lately, they've all been saying to stop talking to her and to forget her completely because they don't want me getting hurt.

I told her I liked her a few months ago when she was dating this guy that treated her like crap. I didn't like him for it and we once got into a fight because of it. Anyways, they all said she was a bitch to me because she completely neglects me, ignores me, and has no regard for my feelings toward her.

I have done so much for her. I bought her a diamond bracelet she never wears, I had made her a list of reasons i think shes amazing and read them to her and she forwarded it to her friends, and when she snuck out of her house and had no where to go, i let her sleep in my room.

So my question is, what is a romantic thing to do for her that comes from the heart? I want it to be special and mean something like hey i love you and this is how much. any ideas?

thiscityisdead
March 6th, 2010, 12:19 AM
to be honest dude..get over her. more fish in the sea.

it sounds like she doesnt even care, and you continue to buy her stuff, find a girl who really cares and appreciates you for you...

your looking for ideas to capture her heart but you said it yourself she has no regard towards your feelings...i dont think you should be wasting your time...it may be hard seeing as you all hang out but you need to let go atleast the "crush" part.

Mr. Smithers
March 6th, 2010, 12:21 AM
Unfortunately, I'm going to side with your friends.

I don't think that she's interested in you at all. Anything nice that you try to do for her, she doesn't even acknowledge it.

I would just forget about her. I know you really like her, but she's not right for you.

You will find the right person for you, you have your whole life. But in my opinion, I don't think she's the one.

screamtobeheard
March 6th, 2010, 09:55 PM
Awh that's no fun. And I know how much that hurts. I liked my best friend awhile back and it sucked.
But I agree with everyone else. You have to try to get over her, because the longer you let yourself keep going with it, the more it'll hurt in the end. I know it seems impossible, but just try to stop thinking about her. If you want any advice on it or anything, PM me.