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Don3
March 4th, 2010, 11:46 PM
Me and my girlfriend:wub: have been going out for 2 months and we want to make the relationship long term (we're going to different high schools next year) but I think that we need to grow on an emotional level if we're going to make this work. I feel like I don't really know her like that well though I've known her for five years and we've been best friends for two I don't really feel like I bothered to get to know her when we were just friends so my question is just like I sated in the title how do I get to know her better and what are some basic things you should know about your girlfriend. (not like really simple things like her birthday or favorite color or food but i don't know just things that every boyfriend needs to know.):what:

Katrina
March 5th, 2010, 12:00 AM
You can get to know her better by asking what stuff she's into, like her taste in music, what films she likes, whether she has any hobbies. Then move on to asking about how she spends her time and about her friends. Find out what her views are on subjects you might be interested in. Do you live close enough to meet up and go out? If not, the best way to get to know someone is to talk about every-day experiences and your feelings about them. It might be as simple as telling her how difficult you're finding school and asking her for advice. The more you talk, the more you'll know her personality. Good luck!

Don3
March 5th, 2010, 12:05 AM
Thank you and right now we go to the same school so we see each other every day but we can't talk in class (obviously) and at lunch boys and girls can't sit together (-_- fml!) we text everyday but it's mainly about pointless things and the conversation drops and rises and it dies fast so i don't know how to keep it going. sadly we don't live that close to each other.

Mr. Smithers
March 5th, 2010, 12:06 AM
Go on dates. Talk to her on the telephone. Buy her a gift.

Make her feel special.

thatgolferboi
March 5th, 2010, 12:27 AM
Development of a relationship is based on interests. I was listening to a podcast on dating today, and one of the things they suggested was to find something that you both want to try (an activity such as a sport) and try it together.