Too Far, Too Young?

[Carlene18]

Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating over 8 months and we talk about doing stuff. Not like having sex but like other stuff like handjobs and fingering.. I'm 14 and he'll be 15 in April. Are we too young to be doing that kind of stuff? i would NEVER go further than that but I'm not sure if our age is too young right now..:what:

[Mr. Smithers]

Its alright to be curious about things like that. But if you have to wonder whether or not you think that both of you are too young to do those sorts of things, then you shouldn't be doing it.

When you feel that your relationship has matured, and has moved up a few levels, then there is a possibility of both of you going further.

[heyhey27]

Teens do things, it's part of being a teenager, to experiment with each other. Go for it if you feel ready.

[Art_dude]

I personally feel 14 is pushing it a little too young (but that's just my opinion. I feel that anything beyond kissing and touching shouldn't happen below age 15) But the real measure of knowing to take your relationship to the next level or not really depends on your comfort level and commitment. If you've been together for 8 months, you genuinely feel comfortable with your partner and the idea of taking it further, and you know you're ready for that responsibility, then why not?

[Zanra]

Only If you guy are irresponsable and are immature about it

[nickw_2013]

Its perfectly acceptable to be curious about stuff like that. For me, I believe that is a litle to young, but if you're willing to accept whatever consequences could come with anything sexual then I guess its not that bad. But really make sure you can accept all the consequences. You may say nothing beyond that will happen but you can never be sure what will happen in the heat of the moment.

[songboy]

I personally feel 14 is pushing it a little too young (but that's just my opinion. I feel that anything beyond kissing and touching shouldn't happen below age 15) But the real measure of knowing to take your relationship to the next level or not really depends on your comfort level and commitment. If you've been together for 8 months, you genuinely feel comfortable with your partner and the idea of taking it further, and you know you're ready for that responsibility, then why not?

I agree

[Lemonlover934]

I think if you really feel ready than it's okay, but if you are questioning whether you old enough i think maybe doubt is there. Personally i feel it is alot about trust, if you truly trust each other it's fine. x

[tyciol]

If it's not illegal then at least make sure you've researched the disease risks and stuff of these acts, it's important in case your partner isn't clean.

[pixie1234]

well you just need to go with what you are comfortable with. stick to both of your comfort zones and youll be fine :) xx

[DAVE_]

Yeah it's fine, just make sure there isn't any "friendly fire" and you should be fine. If yous are both virgins you shouldn't have to worry about STD's/STis (watch out for chlamidia tho!)

[Clayburn Chic]

If your wondering about this your probely too young, the again its up to you to decide

[TheTrueKing]

i say go for it if u feel weird or dont like it just dont do it again

[MELL-AHH-KNEE]

well sweetie, the things i have heard about ppl doing who are soo, much younger than you are far worse than that, so if you and your boyfriend think you are ready then go for it, don't worry about what anyone tells you to do, do what ever yous wanna do.